@darwynnmcpherson: We Found Something DISTURBING About Relationships #moderndating #modernrelationships #traditional #transactional

Rich Bastard :

is there any relationship that's not transactional?

B€TR∆¥£ INKK T∆TT©©§ B¥ INKK :

if a woman comes into a relationship with nothing, and the man is the bread winner in that relationship,say the woman decides she wants to leave shouldn't she leave the same as she came with nothing

infinitewarrior :

I like how you talk things through

Sweetreny1 :

In my opinion, some men have a hard time comprehending what women want. What women want is a fully functioning adult; if she is unable to be, due to sickness, is he able to hold the family down by himself financially, physically, and mentally? That is a need, not just material things. That is a man’s one-minded thinking. Women do need men, but it is not in the way men wants to be needed.

BrattySheeda :

Right… Relationships themselves are transactional. The key is getting with someone who naturally does the things you value and vice versa. That way love for the individual grows organically and it’ll sustain the relationship when either one of you can’t operate at 100% for whatever reason.

TommyD :

This was so dope!! I love the question at the end!! It’s digging deeper into your own view of yourself before someone else comes into your life. If what you do is the sum of your character then why would you get mad at someone who only sees your value as what you perform.

Whosthatgirl :

We live in a patriarchy.. All adult relationships are transactional…

Majisty :

well from what I can see there is one other concept that's been left out and that is evolving.. a person may evolve while their partner may see it as a devolve

Pye :

My favorite content creator on this app.

Lone Wolf Business :

The issue is that romantic relationships aren't unconditional like parental relationships. They require both people to be out of survival mode with the ability and mindset to SHARE. The questions become: 1. who does a person have to be for me to be trusting, kind, caring and generous? 2. are there degrees to that trust and generosity? 3. am I willing to partner with someone with a minimal amount of trust?

(M)issin(I)n(A)ction :

Oh this DEEP sir!

“SLVRBCK LAUREN” :

These perspectives are INCREDIBLE!! Thank you fammo!! ✨🏆✨

Michael❌️ :

So just a though a Homestead partners is a business of equal parts of bartering trade to build a Homestead strong together. But a relationship is separate from business it's a personal value of each personality shared of remaining freetime away from the business of the Homestead. Just as to people living in different homes & sharing freetime for have a relationship. So why when we merge homes that began divide do we not see it as merging businesses outside of the freetime relationship we shared before merging our businesses into one business.

nikkiegiovanniarobinson :

I love your content

♉️🔮A Dani/DanizWindow🎞️🎥🎬 :

This is so deep.

VAL SWTAZCANDY ❌ 🐢🪷🌱 :

I so love these conversations they are needed

FeFe :

This was sexy, thank you

Resse :

Fascinating

SMGMC :

Hard facts!!!

Eaglefield :

I believe that the dangers of constant reciprocation is that it is way too easy for it to become background noise. Once it becomes expected, an expectations has a tendency to creep in. Doesn't mean that the action is worth less, but that it's perceived value drops unless consistently acknowledged.

Dezyhoney :

Quagen gle :

Damn that hits different

Delineationist :

😳😂 It takes $200 to change her mind image if it was thousands it would change her world...smh 😂😳

Indo Carter :

Facts. men call it love instead of transaction, its the same. women feel loved by financial support😁🥰

UncleTos | Fitness•Lifestyle :

I don’t care if you use me because we are here to be used but I’m not here to be misused