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Face in Crowd :
It's not worth trying to do. It is worth reflecting why you're in a relationship with someone who doesn't consider you. In my case it was trauma related. My parents let me down so I found a partner to let me down.
2026-08-20 21:57:55
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TheSunshineEatery :
Consideration 🤝Capacity
2026-08-21 00:59:08
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SomaRue Ayurveda :
I would have to ask him to “pass the ball back” basically ask me how I am
2026-08-20 13:53:06
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Fictionally.Okay ✨🍉📚🗡️ :
That genuinely my love language, if you can’t see how that would hurt me then WHY AM I HERE
2026-08-21 06:29:25
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AnnaRaeH :
It can get sooo complicated and I think “consideration” is a place where our wounds show up a lot. I had a partner who felt I wasn’t being considerate towards him, and I felt like I was bending over backwards to be considerate. He didn’t see a lot of my actions as considerate when I felt they were, and I also felt he hid/lied about his true needs and it was hard for me to get a read on him. Complex
2026-08-20 20:30:05
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bbycee.xo🦋 :
Silent but loud repost because I can’t actually repost it since my boyfriend will take it personal
2026-08-22 09:45:30
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fdbramblepelt :
halito / hello!! not at all trying to trauma dump or bean soup here so pls let me know if this isn't helpful -- what do you think about a partner who expresses anxieties around feeling like they're not good at being considerate or don't know how to do it? it feels hard for me because practically speaking i end up feeling not considered and also now responsible for giving them grace and understanding and support, bc now we're talking about their bad feelings 😭 this was a crazy pull for my fyp to show me, thank you SO much for posting. yakoke fehna hoke (choctaw language) / thank you very much (english)!
2026-08-20 19:01:28
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Chinenye.Was.X :
No one had to teach me bruh
2026-08-21 10:54:38
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λ :
no shade to this video at all but it's gross how my fyp are videos alternating between supportive or demonizing efforts in relationship (for the record this a positive vid)
2026-08-22 23:55:04
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pkayyy_ :
Sometimes ppl don’t have the capacity and that’s another discussion to be had
2026-09-08 18:06:51
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lavender_lover77 :
So when I show affection in the love languages he wants to receive, I am being considerate. And when says he WANTS to show me affection in the love languages I want to receive but he doesn’t follow through, would that be considerate? Chronically disappointed by this man after 2 years of me asking every few months if he can show up for me in the ways I’ve asked and he doesn’t do it. But he thinks about it, so he may think he’s being considerate…?
2026-08-23 02:38:00
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tributeboy :
You have to start somewhere and everytime we just give up on people the world gets a bit worse just saying
2026-08-20 13:00:26
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Angel Lee :
I gotta teach myself to not act like my grandma all the time because he’ll do some considerate shit but I freak out cause it’s not done exactly how I would do it, especially when it wasn’t even done half assed, I just have control issues. 😭😭😭
2026-08-23 21:17:31
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ADHDvirgo 🇵🇸 :
Oh he knew how to be considerate to everyone else but me
2026-10-02 00:27:22
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Starz :
This honestly has become my baseline for any kind of relationship. Friendships, coworkers I allow myself to get close to, people I open up to.
2026-08-24 13:12:09
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moosecanoe :
I think it’s the opposite someone can definitely teach you how to be inconsiderate if their habits suggest that they’re ignoring your favors
2026-08-20 14:10:00
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ur mom :
it’s legit part of my love language
2026-08-25 01:05:06
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madsmadsmadison :
Love this
2026-09-11 23:06:29
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watched a few times so you get your coin and bc i needed to hear this sista🫢🥰
2026-08-22 05:45:45
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jonnyrotten :
I do agree, however, there are times when we need to tell our partner things that warrant real consideration that they deemed unimportant.
2026-08-20 16:19:19
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TheHypeGeek :
i feel like we been growing distant her:no your emptional its in your head *ends 10 year marriage * her: i been feeling this way for years 🙃🙃🙃 agreed, sometimes people just dont want to communicate and decide for both of you
2026-08-20 13:38:38
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Odyssey of Enlightenment :
⚖️🖤💙💚💜❤️🧡💛🤍🪶
2026-08-22 23:43:38
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Ana :
I think for me it’s that I hate asking for help. I want you to help without asking me what to do. Just notice and do!
2026-08-21 21:55:18
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SchrodingersTimelord :
I've been going through this with my boyfriend, trying to teach him how to be affectionate. The problem is, he doesn't want to have affection bc he's avoidant and doesn't really like to be touched and doesn't get anything from it. So the concept of affection is totally lost on him. Then it becomes like a chore. Another thing he has to do to be a good boyfriend and when it's like another item on the to do list it's like low priority. When it does happen it's odd and robotic. It never just happens organically. It's always like okay I'll do this thing and then we're good, right? It just creates more distance and it is so frustrating. 😅
2026-08-22 13:16:29
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ky :
Tell them!
2026-08-21 07:17:49
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