And it's not about expensive clothes either. It's about cleanliness and hygiene. Clean clothes, clean body and face, shoes put on, hair brushed and put together.
2026-08-20 13:32:25
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You look familiar :
I once saw a mom post “I’m not letting my kids leave the house looking unloved” and that’s really stuck with me
2026-08-20 20:11:05
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Ashley Amaya Reyes :
I 100% agree. I cannot stand when the parents look out together and the kids look like they just crawled out of bed. Also cannot stand pjs in public
2026-08-20 04:13:33
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yaz.perez.franco :
This is true! But listen there are some battles I just refuse to fight with my teenager 😭
2026-08-22 05:26:36
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Kaila | 2027 Bride 👰🏽♀️💍 :
Facts! My child for school. Simple but neat.
2026-08-20 16:05:05
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✨Emlily ✨ :
Absolutely.. appearance is a reflection of the parent and the household.
2026-08-20 05:15:24
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Anallely 🥀 :
YOUR KIDS REPRESENT YOUUUU !!!!
2026-08-22 05:08:23
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caroline :
I be looking like Adam Sandler at drop off but you best believe my kids look clean, hair brushed/pulled back and out of their face, smelling nice. I’ll be dressed up for pick up though lol
2026-08-21 12:52:06
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Lucy Almazan :
I work in a pediatric dental clinic, the amount of kids that come with a dirty face and dirty clothes is insane!! Like you’re telling me you saw they looked like that and didn’t wipe their little face down or changed their clothes, 100% it’s on the parents. 🥺
2026-08-20 12:46:26
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Becca | 🧩 mama :
I remember learning in my CDO course in high school that the first 7 seconds of meeting someone is when they create their first impression of you. You have 7 seconds. Make sure your children are put together enough that that 7 seconds doesn’t destroy the reputation and security of you or them.
2026-08-22 06:06:27
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BaddieElla :
I agree. Being neat, smelling good, dressed well (not expensive), hair brushed are important to how they are perceived.
2026-08-20 15:46:08
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ZeeQuietStorm :
Yep and mine get special treatment too
2026-08-22 02:32:10
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JRM3 :
Ok but let’s say my kids look very good and clean always no matter what but some days mama is looking like Adam Sandler 😅😅😅
2026-08-20 13:33:12
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Livinwithkarla :
This, this, this 👏🏼
2026-08-22 00:41:28
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Meggo :
I haaaaaaaate this about myself but I DO notice when kids are unkempt and it's not on them-its on their parents! It doesn't take a lot of effort to make sure your kid is clean, with tidy hair and clean clothes and shoes.
2026-08-20 05:41:45
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Tina Y :
AGREED. My kids always look put together and CLEAN. Always. It also teaches them to respect themselves and their appearance!
2026-08-20 23:22:33
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Tracyy👩🏾⚕️ 🎉 :
Absolutely. This has been a thing since the beginning of time. Some parents just dgaf bc they’re sloppy themselves
2026-08-20 19:16:06
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𐙚˚࿔sara𝜗𝜚˚ :
100000000%
2026-08-20 21:06:19
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Kirby Foster :
We judge everything by appearances on some level
2026-08-20 12:39:38
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@alicia02131 :
Smelling like cigs is the worst!!
2026-08-20 15:49:29
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❤️Angel🪽 :
Sometimes. I let her dress herself. And she looks like a majestic alien unicorn. And I think that’s beautiful too. 😂😂😂😂
2026-08-20 04:53:22
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Tanisha Baker :
Not only appearance, but manners! I want them to know good structure and mannerisms!
2026-08-20 21:08:34
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Alyssa :
As a mom i look a hot mess but my little girl? She has never had a bad hair day, outfit, or been dirty a day in her life unless were intentionally doing a messy activity
2026-08-20 13:49:29
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vgarcia50750 :
My mom believed this. She would buy me a new outfit for each holiday and dressed me for every outing
2026-08-20 23:54:11
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Emily S. :
And people judge your kids for how YOU look. Other kids will bully your kids or say stuff about how the parents look like.
2026-08-20 12:30:19
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