@its.elenamena: she has shaved my legs, washed my hair, taken off my makeup, and even brushed my teeth for me and some people may say that’s weird or gross but i would say that unconditional love. she has never judged me or looked down on me when i fall into an episode instead she helps me take care of myself by doing the basic things i couldn’t get myself to do. if you read this whole caption i love you. #youareloved #depressionawareness #bsf #bekindtoyourselfandothers
But if it was because of a physical disability, people would be like “aww that’s so sweet of your friend!” Why is mental health looked at so different??
2026-08-20 16:58:46
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Murphy :
The night my family found out I was going to commit, my brother slept on my floor all night long and never left my side, for days actually.
2026-08-20 20:23:16
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Tiana Lea🌝 :
I’m just a stranger looking at a short clip but from the smile on your face it seems like you felt loved and cared for in that moment, which was honestly the most important part imo
2026-08-20 12:20:17
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Julie :
1. that's an amazing friend right there
2. I feel that people don't understand depression at all. "ew you don't shower/brush teeth/wash hair/etc. regularly?" My guy, sometimes I am using every ounce of my energy and willpower trying to stay alive. things fall by the wayside. I hope you're feeling better 🩷
2026-08-20 10:36:52
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Sammi Bee :
Where do you find one of those 😭 I will move mountains for friends but I’ve never had a friend do the same for me
2026-08-20 18:00:38
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Lesh :
I’ve gone to my hair stylist in the past. She washed my hair once a week for $5
2026-08-20 11:55:09
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Alysa Williams :
My friend crawled through my kitchen window because I wasn’t answering her phone and I woke up to her beside my bed like “hey” dogs didn’t bark or nothing 😭
2026-08-20 16:58:12
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TurtleCQM :
I haven't showered in a week despite working this entire week, I wish I did, and I wish i had the energy, but literally every ounce of it went to work
2026-08-20 16:38:25
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Ember 🎰 :
I’ve had to remind people that I got so depressed at one point I tried to end my life, so yes there are some days/weeks where I struggle to take care of myself.
2026-08-20 13:41:50
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Jessica :
I would 100% do this for my bestie
2026-08-20 23:45:17
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GoblinKingKodi :
ive washed my best friends hair when she didnt have the energy to do it herself and shes done the same for me, its crazy how much energy sometimh so simple takes when your in the depths of depression but its amazing you have a friend to help you through it
2026-08-21 00:54:58
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nicolerandomspamzz_12233 :
Im so proud of u and i hope u get better and pls never stop being friends with her bc shes such a sweetheart
2026-08-21 00:54:47
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Squid🍉🍉 :
Thats so loving what I would give to have someone I love wash my hair
2026-08-21 00:55:20
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Moon :
When i got sober from alcohol, many years ago, my best friend in the entire world not only showered me, but brushed my teeth for me because i was shaking so bad I couldn't do it myself. She voted for Trump, so we dont speak anymore, but I'll love her until the day I rot away 🖤
2026-08-20 22:16:15
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Choco-taco123 :
Cute if its a woman. Men get put down and belittled for the same behavior
2026-08-20 20:01:12
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ceej <33 :
my boyfriend is like this. he'll shower me when I don't have the effort too. blessed with such a beautiful soul 🥹
2026-08-21 00:56:35
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⭐ :
Please I love this so much 🥹
2026-08-21 00:58:26
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†⛧† :
when my friend had psychosis and was scared so badly of the shower she hadn’t showered for weeks and i found out and drove to her and got in the shower with shorts and a shirt and bathed her i did that for weeks until she was better i love her down i would do it for a stranger tbh
2026-08-20 19:56:25
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Conair :
Keep her close 💜💜
2026-08-20 14:42:37
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molls :
If anyone has any tips on restoring their hygiene that would be greatly appreciated, the thought alone of getting out of bed to brush my teeth genuinely sounds like climbing a mountain.
2026-08-20 21:04:13
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Ender1an :
me and my roomie both deal with depression and chronic pain so whenever one of us feels rlly shit or just doesnt have energy, we bathe the other so that they dont have to feel gross ^^ most cared for I've ever felt
2026-08-20 23:46:32
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paige :
But isn’t this part of what friends and family for? To help us take care of ourselves in times of need?
2026-08-20 19:59:36
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Dallas :
When I explained to a woman who didnt have kids, that I had postpartum depression and didn't shower for 3 days. She looked at me and said "Thats so disgusting, you didnt want to shower".
2026-08-20 16:28:36
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⤷ ゛🍓 Claire 🍰 ˎˊ˗ :
My mental health is getting better! I'm starting to brush my teeth regularly
2026-08-20 19:07:27
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