@findingmywayagain_x: 36, 18 years together and yesterday my whole world changed. 💔 My husband told me he doesn't feel the same way about me anymore. I genuinely never saw this coming and I'm still trying to process how our life can change so suddenly. We have an 8-year-old daughter, I work full-time and now I'm also worrying about what the future looks like financially. I don't have any people to talk to, so I thought I'd share my story and hopefully find some kind, supportive people who have been through something similar. I'm not looking for hate, judgement or people attacking him. I just need somewhere to talk, process everything and hopefully find my way forward. ❤️ One day at a time. #UnexpectedSeparation #MarriageBreakdown #StartingOver #LifeAfterSeparation #StartingOver
When times are tough I always go back to my favourite quote from a book, "' can't see a way through," said the boy.
"Can you see your next step?" "Yes."
"Just take that," said the horse."
- Charlie Mackesy. Stay strong pal, ❤️
2026-08-23 06:23:45
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TKJ :
Good for you in the midst of your loneliness, pain and confusion, getting on here and reaching out. Wishing you all the blessings and success in all you pour your heart in to x
2026-08-23 09:45:21
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clazzamcktazza :
Hi Laura , you sound like you’re from my way . I’m in a similar situation , I’m thinking about joining a netball team 😂 hope you’re ok anyway xx
2026-08-23 22:31:49
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Zoe | 40+ UGC Creator :
I’m so sorry lovely. My 11 year relationship has just ended and he’s carrying on like nothings happened xx
2026-08-23 16:52:16
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Pure Path Wellness🏁 :
Hiya nice to meet you. I can so relate I lost my relationship 2 years ago and it's been hard as I coparent my 4 year old daughter. just stay focused and concentrate on your child. Things do get better and you will become happy again. here if you need a chat ok.💖
2026-08-23 07:30:04
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thislittlelifeuk :
You are going to be ok. I promise you. You will stop crying and you will feel joy again. It’s almost a year since my marriage ended and I’m in a completely different place now. If you have any questions or need to chat, just pop me a message xx
2026-08-23 00:27:29
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North West Family Guide | Jess :
Come back to this video in 1 year and see how far you have come ❤️🩹
2026-08-20 07:27:40
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♡El♡ :
36 is still very young ❤️you have a long life ahead of you, you will get through this x
2026-08-20 13:30:03
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Alison :
What a blessing to find a whole new amazing start to life at 36! Life starts here diva! I’ll be your friend! 🖤
2026-08-20 08:00:14
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Emmie :
1. Try and cut down your work hours. 2. Find out about breakfast club/after school clubs.3. Sort out finances- how much will you husband give you. Bank accounts 4. Apply for universal credit. 5. Sort out house situation. 6. Organise rota of when he will see daughter and stick to it. 7. Realistically look at you weekly shopping needs, identify where you can save money/ buy alternatives. 8. Cry when your daughter is asleep. 9. Show no emotion when she asks ( very difficult but will help to maintain even keel for her. 10. Speak to him like it’s a business meeting, facts only. You have got this, you are stronger than you yet know. ♥️
2026-08-20 07:31:28
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laurell_isabelwoodward :
You don’t look a day over 20 girl! Wow! 🥰
2026-08-20 16:00:10
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Esme 🖤 :
Girl when he realises the grass isn’t greener I hope you find the strength to tell him to do one! We are the same age I’m single with two children and honestly life is PEACEFUL 🤍
2026-08-20 17:11:55
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itsonlykerb🧚🏼 :
All I hear is… FREEDOMMM✨✨
2026-08-20 09:02:10
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clolouiser :
Hey lovely, mine left me in January and we were together 17 years, married for 4 and I can PROMISE you, things do get better, TRUST ME. You probably don’t even know who you are without him but you 100% will but you need to trust the healing process. I will be your friend, DM’s are always open!!! ♥️♥️
2026-08-20 11:24:59
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Kool aid Kiki :
What is happening to MEN ?
2026-08-20 22:29:41
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Laura Trott :
Hello fellow Laura. I'm sorry to hear this. I just want you to know that my 2nd life began at 36 and now I have a fantastic husband and 4 year old daughter after a terrible 13 year relationship and 5 year 'marriage'. Please reach out if you need a chat - it will get better I promise ❤️x
2026-08-20 17:05:24
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steph.louise :
You’ve got friends. Us. Complete strangers who can sometimes be the people you need to speak too. I’ve not been through this but girls support girls and I’m here. Message me anytime. You are not alone. Your new life starts now and I’m proud of you, a complete strangers ever 🩷
2026-08-20 17:02:03
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neeneeb :
Hey girl, 7 years ago my marriage ended after 14 years and 3 kids together, it was incredibly scary but now I’m engaged in an amazing place. You are about to embark on a journey of self discovery, it’s so hard in the beginning but will all work out in the end! Wishing you well 💗
2026-08-20 19:37:08
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brunette1319x 🤎💋💫 :
Oh girl 😭💔 you have an army of friends on here. Sending love to you and your daughter ❤️
2026-08-20 14:06:01
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Tyson and Pringle :
a strong independent women is pending right here ❤️❤️
2026-08-20 15:13:42
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•filthy little snacks• :
Oh sweetheart. It’s going to hurt for a little while. But let’s spin it a little. You have a new beginning, a daughter who needs stability and you CAN do it. I’m sending you a warm embrace x
2026-08-20 08:59:07
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𝕳𝖆𝖓𝖓𝖆𝖍 🐝 :
He’s in love with another woman 100%. You’re better off without him.
2026-08-20 13:37:46
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lifewith_kimberley :
My marriage randomly broke down last August. He then wanted to come back, then left again and then was “dating” the next day. Cheating b*stard 😂 I felt like my whole world had ended. The tears were insane. He’s dragged out the divorce. I had 1 friend in person. But it was my internet friends who got me through. I really do mean this, if you need to talk, you can message me. This is hard enough, but doing it alone is souls destroying
2026-08-22 08:08:42
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catlady7936 :
Try listening to the Not As We Planned podcast. You will be ok, one day at a time.
2026-08-20 07:36:18
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