@orator_walubengo: As a woman, should you carry yourself differently when you’re with men? In this video, I unpack the idea behind the statement: “Don’t carry yourself like a soldier when you’re with men and carrying luggage.” Is it about weakness, femininity, wisdom, or simply knowing when to receive help? Watch the full analysis and join the conversation.

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Thursday 20 August 2026 07:36:25 GMT
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natasha_mukisa
Natasha Mukisa :
Can someone remind me to always be a woman even if it’s an insult 😁
2026-08-20 13:05:34
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user600690559922
Momo🥰 :
so even beating mosquitoes is for men only😂
2026-08-21 09:00:07
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_officialviothequeen
_viothequeen :
It's hard for us as firstborn daughter
2026-08-20 12:25:20
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blessed__dee
Diana❤️ :
I will open every door and do everything I can, we are humans.
2026-08-20 08:42:52
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reshy.raquel
Reshy Raquel :
but how do I emphasize that we are currently living in an era with "pretty" men and "hardworking" women😭 we just can't help it
2026-08-20 16:24:33
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wavinya1895
Aggyyee :
ghai,so I should stop killing mosquitoes at night
2026-08-21 05:59:00
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leilamackenzie657
leilamackenzie657 :
most of us ladies have grown up defending for ourselves and working for ourselves . so we dont care wether the men open doors or carry our luggages thats a non issue.🤣.we arw here to survive whether with them or alone
2026-08-20 09:18:34
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the_renaissance_woman_
The_Renaissance_Woman✨ :
Very true ! The moment I mastered my femininity and embraced it, it has changed my aura how I am treated spoken with and served. Your femininity is your power and it will attract so much softness 👏🏾
2026-08-20 10:49:25
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bobo_gemswoodenwatches
BOBO.GEMS WOODEN WATCHES :
Umesema tucheke na small letters😂
2026-08-20 09:36:58
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thumbelina260
thumbelina260 :
Many time we prefer them to see us as a brother coz you show them femininity watakukatia ushangae.we also get tired na masimu za kukatiwa.ati when can i take you for a coffee,saa hiyo mmetoka meeting.
2026-08-20 09:27:39
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winniem55
winnie macharia :
am a bro a firstborn I thrive in male denominated spaces aki siwezi soft power hakuna🤭🤣
2026-08-20 13:40:34
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alikaymamelvo
Alikay :
This is Soo me..am damn masculine.Will work on myself aki
2026-08-20 08:22:30
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defoe420
Defoe Gk :
You are my mentor always brother 🤗
2026-08-20 07:40:26
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deborahmutheu961
bloom beyond ✨️ :
Benny how are you doing 😭
2026-08-20 11:14:51
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janetsherrithelifecoach
Janet Sherri The Life Coach :
Gentle men are so few in modern times... the way some men push me in the streets of CBD.... weeeuh I need therapy
2026-08-20 08:30:58
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prolificmaria
Prolific Great Maria :
apart from growing with 6 brothers, I became a single mom at 18 and there it was! on the tomboy behaviour, I learnt to be strong in all aspects and I realised I'm more brotherly with men that they share only men talks. they even ask me opinion on girls they're seeing as if I am a man 😏
2026-08-20 08:20:10
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sheillahkoimur
Jelagat💫 :
For some of us, our masculinity was activated by circumstances. I'm a first born, mtoto wa askari, served the KDF, met men who want to be pushed and I can't beg because I'm used to being self sufficient 😂 At this point I'm a bro for sure 🤣🤣🤣 I'll start with putting on dresses
2026-08-20 10:36:17
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ideally58
👠 :
we are all humans Wacha oral narratives
2026-08-20 18:06:36
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