Exactly ma!
The social media space has made us believe so much in the narrative of men being toxic that we sometimes fail to see the good things men do.
I think people in good marriages and healthy relationships should come out more often to share their experiences too.
Enough of “men are this,” “men are that.” Let’s also hear about the good men, the healthy relationships, and the beautiful marriages.
2026-08-20 08:31:34
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DDG :
can you do this video again? this time use pidgin english bcos my babe no go too understand ur big grammar😭😭
2026-09-19 06:06:46
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Oluebube :
For me the challenge is women we are taught to learn our husbands and our husbands don't see the need to learn us their wives too. that's my challenge
2026-08-23 18:28:50
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Aham bukwa Emma :
m having this very issue with the lady I intend to marry by God's grace. I know that I don't always get it right, but recently I began to realize that my babe was starting to sound like TikTok woke baddies more than the person I saw and fell in love with. I know she would never agree to this. But omo, one thing I've realized that this influence thing is like bedbugs. It's there o, but you won't know till night reach and they come out and start biting. I myself had to intentionally purge my TikTok of those contents. Both the memes o, the ones with dancing steps and the quotes on top - all those things. Let the knowledge I have be the one in front of me. Omo, it's not easy. God help us o
2026-08-25 14:52:12
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__ManOfPeace__ :
But why did you agree to marry him if you didn't really like him?
2026-08-20 09:23:11
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Jclinch Sunny :
dem don use English mask "stubborn" 😂😂😂😂.
let's continue the story
2026-08-25 15:57:37
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BuriSkips. :
Handimen are so underrated. People do not know the convinience that comes with having a husband who is able to address things in the moment. The cost effectiveness and all.
2026-08-20 08:32:21
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chief_nomso :
You didn't like him very much cos of what you thought, end of the day how do people even fight against things like this when your spouse own enemy is in her head 🥺
2026-08-21 08:00:57
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TruthSeeker369 :
You think social media is a joke.. why do you think the algorithm pushes contents that doesn't edify or help marriage. We have to be intentional on how we handle our marriages
2026-08-23 16:33:34
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WellnessJourney001 :
The HolySpirit had also prompted me on the social media space especially during that period of waking up to one bad news or the other. If I have to scroll I am mindful of what I read and digest as I have a very graphic memory even with just words typed I am able to do a whole content shoot edit in my head so I ll rather avoid consuming it
2026-08-20 12:00:02
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Elo global :
Na sensible woman Dey know how to figure out peace in her house
2026-08-27 06:25:47
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haryorauto :
it applies to both gender. not only social media even advices, people life experiences and talks. makes u 4get to see who is in ur front
2026-08-29 08:49:13
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Ruby Speaks Life | Identity :
we underestimate how much we milk on social media.
2026-08-20 11:19:04
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MIN M.D :
Thank you very much ma this is really educative
2026-08-25 09:05:53
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Confy :
👌💯♥️♥️I love how you follow the instructions of the Holy Spirit ♥️
2026-08-20 11:59:45
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kennethahaoma :
Handyman all the way
2026-08-23 16:15:54
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Kelly Kelly :
thank you 🙏
2026-08-20 08:24:19
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Vijeoma :
thank you for sharing
2026-08-20 08:47:13
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queenjoy004 :
Thank u for sharing
2026-08-20 09:27:01
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elkaykay :
Thanks abunch for this level of Accountability
2026-08-26 10:16:56
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Victor Oti :
I say this all the time, Most women are easily influenced by the littlest of external influence. Women consume social media more. A lot of bitter views are peddled on the social media space when exposed to them on a daily basis it becomes the building blocks to our thoughts,hence it becomes a ticking time bomb...... LADIES, I WONT TEACH YOU HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIVES..." BUT PLEASE ALWAYS HAVE YOUR OWN THOUGHTS" , CHECK ALL OPINIONS/IDEAS/THOUGHTS BEFORE YOU SWALLOW THEM....
2026-08-24 06:45:17
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Lois_&_Luxe_collections :
Thank you maam
2026-08-20 11:06:42
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D@ Gr8 Guy :
Imagine say she dey deaf and she no dey hear the Holy Spirit, do you know what would have happened? Omo I thank God for you dear sis, is very important to marry woman wey get fear of God o
2026-08-24 06:18:36
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The Family Forte :
God bless you, ma
2026-08-20 12:40:44
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engradebisiadeban :
social media and movies are unconsciously influencing many women in their marriages these days. they want their husbands to love them the way they want, and the way they want to be loved was learned from movies and social media. how do we make them understand that social media and movies are not real life.
2026-08-24 11:34:19
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