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Shauna Byrne :
👏👏 taking a year off dating has been he best choice of my life… I don't even want to anymore still, it frees up so much time
2026-08-24 02:03:37
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emobaker :
I’m terrified of ever being vulnerable with someone again and giving them the power to hurt me like that again
2026-08-22 04:27:21
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Sage Moonlight :
I was with my husband for over 20 years when out of the blue he dumped me. I'm done with guys.
2026-08-22 05:42:01
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sconesandtea100 :
oh it’s a complete wrap on men and relationships for me after years of that abusive mess—i always joke with my friends that my ex was the “last chopper out of ‘Nam” because men were already on thin ice with me beforehand, but after leaving him? goodbye to them all 💀
2026-08-20 14:35:22
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ohhloookitssvee :
Girl, I HAVE been single for 5 YEARS 😂 the solitude with a A1 community is top tier.
2026-08-20 12:26:33
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willajocosplays :
It’s been 4 years for me. I still have a hard time dating
2026-08-20 12:53:24
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Emily | Eating and Roaming :
I really feel this!!! Following my last breakup about a year ago, I have zero interest in dating, perhaps ever again. I’m a lot older than you at 49, though - and have two divorces behind me, adult children, and many other relationships. My last relationship happened because a person from my past reached out to give things another go, and I’d long thought of him as the one who got away, so I was thrilled. However, it was all incredibly traumatizing, especially when he told me in the end that the whole relationship was a joke and a game and I was a fool if I thought someone like him could ever be truly interested in someone like me (i.e., plus-sized and not conventionally attractive). And he was someone who was a friend for a very long time, even if we weren’t in touch constantly over the years. The whole thing made me incredibly distrustful of men from a romantic perspective. I certainly have no interest in dating apps, singles events, etc. I try to tell myself I’d be open to meeting people organically but I think even then I’d be pretty skeptical. All that said, though, I am having the very very best time being single! So many adventures in terms of my work, having fun on solo dates, and my increasingly intensive content creation hobby. My autonomy and my peace are extremely precious to me, and I can’t see giving those up for anyone.
2026-08-20 13:43:52
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Em | Trauma & Abuse Educator :
Yes. We broke up last April I haven’t even tried and I don’t plans on it. I also did the dating app thing for like 3 days 😭
2026-08-20 12:37:51
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OnlyxEverything :
I’m there right now. Honestly- decentering romantic relationships changed my life for the better!! My life is f*cking awesome even if the lonely creeps in every so often (like once in a blue moon and the blue moon is my perimenopause hormones)
2026-08-20 13:50:41
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Alex :
6 year relationship, divorced for 6 months. I’ve started/tried so many new hobbies, booked concerts for myself w/o anxiety, and have seen friends I hadn’t in YEARS. I still miss her every day, but I am making the most of it.
2026-08-20 19:52:44
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Shar 🌈🩷 :
I will say after my divorce and now finding a long term committed queer relationship it’s soooooo different. But it’s also with someone I’ve known as a good friend for years prior. I’ve done so much healing and do much discovery about myself. But it’s not for everyone and I totally get that. I hope you are able to move through your healing journey and find the peace you deserve.
2026-08-20 15:33:19
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alovely :
I’m a month out from separating from my husband of 10 years. I’d be totally fine never even speaking to another man lol
2026-08-20 12:53:02
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KT | MSW | PhD-S👩🏿🔬🎀 :
Yes my ex fiancé broke up in 2025 I still don't like men maybe 2028
2026-08-20 12:24:40
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Shane :
6 years, have meet some great women who we realized early on in talking we were not a fit. just not my priority currently, open to the possibility with caveat. I am not actively looking, my priorities are myself and son. Truthfully I am good just staying single.
2026-08-20 12:51:00
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Max |Overall Oaf| AuDHD 🇨🇦💄 :
I heard someone say that if you've ever had a healthy breakup then had an abusive one, you can TELL the difference. And it's so true.
2026-08-21 19:56:09
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Jenneil :
It’s been two years. Haven’t even considered it. No dating apps, no going out trying to meet people, nothing. And, I don’t foresee it happening unless I randomly meet someone, am friends with them for years and something develops over time. But, even then… not planning for that to happen either.
2026-08-21 14:55:50
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nana_5909 :
4 years next month, still no desire at all 😅
2026-08-21 21:26:40
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The Glitter Fairy 🏳️🌈🍉🇺🇦 :
I don’t even feel like I can be vulnerable again. Watch “500 Days of Summer” - that’s my mindset right now. 🖤
2026-08-20 23:02:00
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Nopeqm 🇨🇦 :
Yup! And I didn’t have a boyfriend for many many years after hehe
2026-08-21 01:09:49
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Atlas :
an objectively good person admitted they have feelings for me and I cannot bring myself to consider a relationship with them. I left an 8 year toxic relationship and dating makes me feel so fucking gross right now.
2026-08-21 08:00:29
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kiskatas :
Me too, I cannot imagine being able to trust a man ever again. Hoping one day I’ll get there but omg is the thought of it enough to make me panic.
2026-08-21 13:45:18
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Riley 🏳️🌈 :
ditto.
2026-08-23 05:54:54
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Tessssinhaa :
Yep. My wife of 8yrs cheated on me and moved in with that person 2 months post separation. Im 9 months out and while im better, i have zero desire to date
2026-08-21 11:20:48
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MyToneO'Voice 🏳️⚧️ :
3 years since my ex fiance and I split. Ive done a lot of growing since then and its hard cause I want a relationship but also recognize that im nowhere near healed enough from everything to be ready for one
2026-08-21 09:58:34
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breakupdiaries :
Same! We are on the same timeline almost - 4 months out!
2026-08-20 14:42:25
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