@macromitch: Some women aren’t hard to love. They’re just hard to fool. Once you’ve learned what happens when you give the wrong person access to your heart, you stop handing out pieces of yourself so easily. So no… she isn’t cold. She’s protecting something she knows is valuable. And the man who eventually earns her trust will understand just how much love was behind those walls the entire time. #womenwithstandards #knowyourworth #guardedheart
You have it very right, I spent 13yrs as a single mom of a daughter in my masculine energy and I worked very masculine jobs. I had alot of guy friends because I was safe because I was very independent and my daughter thought her mommy could fix anything. Then my 3 boys came into my world and I still stayed masculine strong until they became teens and they started to bring my feminine energy forward as they came into their masculine and I allowed it wanting them to respect and treat woman as precious.
2026-08-21 00:40:04
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Daisy🌸 :
Years of Abuse will cause you to be guarded. It takes a real man to lead her out of that 💯
2026-08-20 15:29:45
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❄️Elsa❄️ :
I get scared when a man starts chasing me
2026-08-20 23:59:57
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QueenCurella :
This is very true
2026-08-21 00:02:26
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Tara :
alot of men say they want that however from my experience when they get it they can't handle it because they realize it requires them to really step up and be a solid secure man
2026-08-20 18:44:35
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rondaginger8 :
🔥🔥🔥🔥they aren't looking they are keeping peace
2026-08-20 18:34:50
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I asked the moon 🌔 :
I've never met a man safe enough
2026-08-20 20:04:29
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Jayme :
Feminine energy? Have no clue what that feels like…
2026-08-20 17:10:36
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BlueEyedBlondie🖤 :
So Accurate ♥️
2026-08-20 13:24:34
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Trinity Moses 🇺🇸 :
if I am too much for someone 🤣 they are free to leave 😎 I got me
2026-08-20 16:09:51
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twaggers :
You’ve said a mouthful, in such a way that is understood. I’ve not heard it explained as well as you have done. Early trauma has built up walls in ways I never completely understood. No man has ever come close to making me feel protected. It’s really sad. Maybe soon, a man will come along that will earn our trust so that we can rightfully return to our feminine energy where we belong. Thank you for your carefully chosen words that men can understand us better.
2026-08-20 18:43:34
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St Mary Esquire Reset :
It would be nice to be a woman again❤️to be able to see a woman that might be a spirit warrior for children❤️
2026-08-20 17:37:41
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user1538389612147 :
Hyper independence happens over a very long period of time. Don't blame us, for having to look after ourselves. Sometimes we have no choice. We have to choose ourselves, and put our Priorities in the #1 position. The walls happen, because we have to provide the walls of protection around us. Don't call us, stuck up, or any other names. We're just out here, trying to be our best version of ourselves at the moment we are in. From a 60 year old, with a lifetime of different experiences.
2026-08-20 17:06:56
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Shannon Walker :
but we get blamed for being this way
2026-08-20 18:45:32
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🦋✿ღShortyღ✿🦋 :
💯 agree
2026-08-20 17:38:45
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Tina :
🥰 I was born with my masculine energy
2026-08-20 18:50:42
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Mystic Wolf ⛓️💥💪 :
I'm not trying to be a !@# you know but a lot of the male population could use a refresher course on this not all are as open to this knowledge as you are mitch. and I do as probley as much as a lot of the other women In this comment section would like to thank you for being able to explain it in layman's terms in a way that they maybe able to understand it you definitely were able to put it into words better then I probley would have.
Thank you
2026-08-20 23:48:30
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ANGELICA ELIZABETH AMOR :
you know us...I love you so much..thank you I finally see me...for seeing us..I don't feel safe at all
2026-08-20 14:12:27
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rondaginger8 :
Absolutely
2026-08-20 18:36:52
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Jessica :
smart man
2026-08-20 20:12:55
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Ashly🌻 :
When my “protector” beat the shit out of me I stopped feeling safe! Walls up!
2026-08-20 15:09:12
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only 1 Jen,🤍rnjen :
Wait …. Does this mean some men understand this????
2026-08-20 17:04:39
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I'm Not Who I Was :
I agree with everything you said because I have lived in a masculine energy ALL my life. I am one of the sweetest and most vicious women you will ever meet depending on what you have earned in how you treat me. You put this well, sending you much love for your understanding you have done your research 👏👏👏🫂🫂🫂❤️🖤❤️🖤
2026-08-20 19:02:36
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A :
thank you for saying that! much love!
2026-08-20 14:43:50
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Kristin :
You are exactly right. I've walked away from several men I didn't find was my fit. Been on my own for 18 yrs. I got myself. I got my standards too
2026-08-20 16:37:40
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