@tootall2function: Some great conversations have been had the last few days with my elderly bestie, and finally I think he is understanding my boundaries and my role in his life. He still tells me he is in love with me, but he has accepted that it’s not going to happen. As hard as that is, I needed him to accept it. I have a much better outlook on the future and am excited to carry on with our journey! Love you all 🩷 #seniorcare #volunteer #caregiver #community #kindness
So happy you have Chris, Meredith and all your wonderful friends! Love seeing your smile again. ✨🥰✨
2026-08-20 17:47:02
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Jessica Nichole 🌙🌱 :
Wait when did you start dating?! I swore last I heard you weren’t, but I love that for you!!
2026-08-20 22:16:19
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Stacy :
Do you have any senior community type activities in your area? Maybe if he met people his own age for companionship, he may turn his sights onto other relationships?
2026-08-20 16:43:02
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JustJP :
Calling him “my sweet elderly friend” is so weird to me. Call him papa or pop pop. Calling him sweet sounds too borderline romantic to me.
2026-08-20 20:37:02
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Carrie Elaine :
Sometimes having that man to man talk is what’s needed. Chris seems like a great guy. I’m so happy for you both. Also, I’m sure it’s different state to state and I forgot what it’s called but there’s programs through the state that will pay family members (POA’s) a caregivers wage for caring for the elderly. Please look into that because you deserve compensation for your time and personal expenses; whether you can afford it or not, you should be compensated and not be penalized with higher tax brackets. Love ya lady and I’m rooting for you all 🥰💪🫶🏻
2026-08-20 16:45:13
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auggie :
this sounds silly but would a visual chart of pictures of everyone’s faces next to how he “knows them/the relationship they have” in hopes of things become less confusing for him in his head if he sees a visual everyday that you caitlin are his friend and not wife
2026-08-20 20:57:58
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Janice Sunshine Harr :
Girl what were those bell things? Your face was hilarious
2026-08-20 21:12:59
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sarxxix :
You should be able to write a lot of the stuff off with receipts, although im sure you're aware!! Thank you for being amazing
2026-08-20 16:10:31
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Teame :
I put money in the go fund me yesterday, was I supposed to put it somewhere else?
2026-08-22 17:38:20
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Ryleigh’s RainBows :
What is up with the showers and them not understanding basic instructions. My mom has the cleanest boobs in town. Mom clean your privates, nope under-boobs, mom clean your armpit, nope under-boobs…ugh! 😂
2026-08-21 00:20:22
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Christine B :
Woot!!!! Great idea and THANKS CHRIS!!!! I’m so glad!!!!
2026-08-20 18:34:07
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jatoeandjane :
Hopefully this is the new beginning you all need! 🤎
2026-08-20 15:43:58
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user7507709787784 :
I love your post’s. I know you have a lot to say but I have replay the post because it’s so fast. God Bless you for all you do for your sweet friend. 🩷
2026-08-20 23:33:52
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Roberta Ruff :
how could Chris not love you. youre doing good❤️
2026-08-20 19:09:05
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the_political_potato :
Your friends are rockstars. I remember some from your college days.
2026-08-20 21:26:27
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Johnsmom :
Chris is your savior and you need one. You look so much better, not so stressed.We love you ❤️
2026-08-21 16:20:11
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mommabogie :
Yay! a good update 👏🫶
2026-08-20 15:37:28
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sam_leigh11 :
Happy that things seem to be turning around!!
2026-08-20 19:25:28
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Amanda Mccammon :
i am so glad the conversation went well, maybe some more male dates would possibly also help him. I can hear in your voice some relief. So happy today went well 🙏😍
2026-08-20 21:13:29
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kotton_kandy_kae :
Chris sounds like he is perfect for YOU! 🥰
2026-08-21 18:56:01
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V.B. Hughes | Author📚✌🏻 :
Honestly the attitude switch of your friend sounds a lot like what my dad went through after his stroke. Apparently depending on the side or area affected it can make them more impulsive (aka, remove their filter.) You're doing great. 💕
2026-08-21 01:07:51
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Candice💕 :
I’m so happy for you! You definitely deserve happiness and to have someone take care of you too! Sending prayers 💕🦋
2026-08-20 17:20:24
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sarxxix :
Shoutout Chris
2026-08-20 16:08:56
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Kristen Nirvana 🧿 :
I have an important question!!!! is the trust fund set up as a Revokable Living Trust?? if not - PLEASE look into it....
my dad set his estate up this way so when he passed I was able to immediately access things.. and thank goodness for that! he had two houses, second house was an apartment building. it also cost me $6k for his funeral, which obviously couldn't wait. Without the trust set up that way, I would NOT have been able to manage things at all when I first lost him! I hope the lawyer set you up this way 🤞🏻
2026-08-20 16:34:01
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Kemoshines :
Brilliant....love hearing and seeing this!!!🥰🥰🥰
2026-08-20 22:18:09
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