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36927🏴 :
I completely agree that someone leaving you on read for 24 hours is a red flag. If it’s genuinely a bad time, a quick text to say that goes a very long way. Ultimately though, it doesn’t matter whether other people do or do not think something is okay or not. If it doesn’t work for you, that’s all you need to decide whether someone is for you or not. It doesn’t make either of you wrong, just not compatible, and you don’t need to justify that to anyone.
2026-09-09 17:56:15
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purplereds :
Ur gonna think differently once u hit 22ish
2026-08-21 08:39:13
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fl4weries🫧 :
i left him on read for 24hrs, why? every single time I text him, it takes him 2-3 hrs to reply and then will reply just 1 word, basically just telling me to not text him anymore so I did
2026-09-08 16:54:07
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books_aremyhiraeth :
bro how would you manage dating a person overseas??😅
2026-09-09 07:54:25
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Teresa Hoang :
It’s debatable bc I feel like in a world of instant messaging ppl are always so quick to say “it takes 5 seconds to respond”. sure that’s true but frequent communication does not equal good communication
2026-08-21 02:02:42
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barrybillyburton :
I mean it depends on the subject of the convo, whether they're working, their lifestyle, their communication style, etc. I don't like to fret about these things cause it kinda means you have nothing going on in life to need it 🤔. Miscommunication is easy when texting
2026-08-20 21:35:52
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Spark :
This goes for friendships. People aren’t really your friend if they only want you when convenient/beneficial
2026-08-21 03:51:15
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zach_2520 :
As Ive gotten older I kinda disagree in the sense that it’s less about the time between communication and more about the pattern. If someone is generally consistent but likes to have their own time for a bit, that’s valid as long as it’s communicated properly. And i do feel some people just naturally don’t feel a need to constantly text - and to be fair before smartphones, people wouldn’t have been able to text every day yet it still worked
2026-08-22 16:11:43
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cumtopapae :
Also u gotta stop taking ppl not responding to ur text so personally cuz sometimes ppl are just busy nobody owes u their time esp if it’s not an emergency!
2026-08-21 12:02:20
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sama :
okay but that's only for replying to a text right? not start up a whole convo? like you talk with them, and then three days pass, and neither of you say hi or hru, THAT'S normal right?
2026-08-20 16:50:16
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Brosk :
Honestly it depends i get overwhelled with texts sometimes and i cant respomd and it takes long cause i dont have the social battery to reply and whenever i do, which i used to do, i would regret it later cause we could get into thw flow of texting and i disappear cause i crashed or smth. I feel extremely bad and sometimes it gets chronic but i dont think i can do much about it.
2026-08-22 17:10:05
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9999 :
Exactly like no one is that busy
2026-08-20 21:32:05
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m ʌ r i i ʌ :
couldn’t be me,i answer in one second💀🙏🏻inconsistency is so fucking annoying
2026-08-20 18:34:10
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Madge1292 :
24 hours isn't a huge deal for me. However, anything more than that without proper communication raises questions and possible problems. I understand all different perspectives. The whole "they don't owe you anything" is valid. However, the other side of the fence is also valid in their feelings.
2026-08-25 12:34:46
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. :
yeah idk how to feel I just really love him
2026-08-20 16:39:03
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hm62774 :
There's a difference between someone who doesn't message you every day and someone leaving you on read for 24 hours.
2026-08-21 15:33:05
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cumtopapae :
That just means your bond isn’t strong enough yet or met online (already 🚩), sometimes my buddies and I don’t text each other for days but it doesn’t matter cuz we trust each other
2026-08-21 12:08:50
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m⛰️ :
ykw it's true
2026-08-20 16:38:30
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🎀 :
So real for that
2026-08-21 01:27:21
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Layla :
what about three months of constant communication turning into two or three extremely dry texts before bedtime and "life got in the way" excuses every time I address the issue with a sprinkle of "I want you in my life" when he senses that you have had enough?
2026-08-27 23:48:16
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onlyprestonsalomon :
You just need to have a conversation with them about it before.
2026-08-23 14:50:26
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Lawgendary :
If that's true, then your trust with the other person isn't strong enough.
2026-08-23 14:45:39
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🌙 :
yeahh no
2026-08-23 13:46:58
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匚尺ㄩ丨丂乇_🕷️ :
I don’t understand how people can like talk to you for like one of two days then booom leave you on read for then 3 months come by and say how are you
2026-08-28 00:55:42
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