@rowdybarbarian: today i am philosopher not barbarian

Wat_is_u_tokin_abt? :

Guys, lets protect this one

Leesj :

Rare actual w opinion

Bren. :

financial stability is the backbone of a relationship. I've seen so many couples breakup in their early 20s because of money problems it's kinda sad to see.

Pgpx :

i dont think you are naive, you are just conflating superficiality w practicality. But it doesnt matter in your early 20s but u will come to realise financial status/ aspirations that are aligned are impt for a stable realtionship (and ppl do prefer those who alr have such a foundation due to their background)

averytan5 :

Becos a guy from a rich fam has a better chance to remain rich or get richer than someone who is from a poor fam.

teehee :

I have been with a rich man and I have been with a poor man during my dating phase. I'd choose rich any fucking day 😂

whadupdawg :

Are you Wei Liea’s sister?

Baby*²⁰⁰⁰* :

you are not naive n I hope all women will one day feel the happiness of having able to provide for themselves n buy everything that u dun need another man to buy for u.

ryqa :

im a major big ass feminist but i seriously dont see the point in being all like “oh my boyfriend pays for EVERYTHING for me and i dont have to spend any money” and arguing that girls should NEVER pay for ANYTHING. cos like youre right lmao and these kind of girls expect LITERAL TEENS to pay for them and their dates and like everything which is so weird cos they barely have ANYTHING for themselves…. i feel like we should collectively stop being so shallow when it comes to choosing men & complain about their personalities when yall Dated them js for money or looks.

miyuki :

ikr social media ruins romance is so real

izxn :

not naive just some critical thinking

Wanderlust :

she is sensible. but nt everyone sees it this way.

Jjjjjjjjfgh :

Thank you for standing up for the bros, much respect

shaunsidious :

Financial stability is part every relationship’s backbone, but being rich shouldn’t be why you’re together. Otherwise, you’re just sugar-dating with no genuine connection.

reese :

agreed but i think one’s financial literacy should still be considered, cos it can really influence how the rest of the rls plays out… which can be seen through their spending habits anyway, regardless of income

℘ཐི༏ཋྀ℘ :

Honestly i think if you can’t provide for your partner you should not be dating.like being financially stable is important so you can can’t mange to buy something for yourself don’t expect your partner to buy it for you especially if both of you are struggling. Once in a while your partner pays for your things then it’s okay but all the time at a young age is like err but that’s just my take. Also if you emotionally unavailable please for the love of god don’t date honestly date when your ready to and don’t ever date or be in a relationship for the sake of being in an relationship and for the label

Kang_John :

The more you experience the more you come to chill out do you because you’ll just realise better that other people can define their own standards on their own accord. It’s really not our business how they want to go about life and we shouldn’t force our beliefs and standard onto them. Like really there’s Nothing wrong with having the expectation of finding a partner to has this or that, becuase soemthing that doesn’t matter to you could matter a great deal to another and it really could be for reason deeper seeded than you think but you just won’t see it

frozenstrawberrymilkk :

fax bt if they’re nt financially motivated or can severe spending problems then you may be forced to provide more than u can handle, as we grow older, its more ab do they hv ambition n are financially responsible rather than how much they actl hv

QuantSophia :

date and marry rich, it’s not that deep

viole :

wait hi why am i seeing this now

user7190513875747 :

got people 19 year old buy Ferrari

Josh :

Lumibeads :

How rich I am? I'm 22 y/o and I already own 3 properties from aggressive investment. Yes I am the top 5% in Singapore queen

mazy✨ :

FACTS. WDYM U CANT BE A INDEPENDENT WOMAN AND PAY FOR URSELF😭

⋆˚꩜.ᐟ :

this is why #dualincome and no kids🤤🤤