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wanix :
First it’s “I want a women to provide for” and then it’s “all women are gold diggers”
2026-08-20 21:36:31
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Kanmani :
I mean as a woman of colour my womanhood and girlhood has always been up for question and debate.
2026-08-20 19:03:23
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Soren :
Provider is a made up term. At no point in human history did women not work. Relationships have always been 50/50. With both the man and the women providing for the household.
2026-08-20 21:42:50
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Amelia Konig :
Men: gender is NOT a spectrum! The same man: let me prove how much more masculine I am than other men.
2026-08-20 23:26:58
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BossBitch :
The funniest thing is that MEN set the standards for other men so let’s be mad at men.
2026-08-20 21:57:47
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dr.shawna :
When someone says they want a “traditional relationship” what responsibilities do you think they are agreeing to?
2026-08-20 18:49:39
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marcelene :
the original video is conflating two different people as the same because sexist women like to treat men as a monolith. that's all you actually need to know.
2026-08-21 04:38:11
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Mulder's Sister Samantha 👽 :
"you're not man enough." Ah, so you agree--gender is on a spectrum.
2026-08-21 04:03:11
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Cedric :
Alot of men would feel so much freer if they reconsidered what masculinity can be cause these are cages of our own creation at the end of the day, hopefully more watch your videos
2026-08-20 19:00:57
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Athena Kipen :
I also think a lot of men haven’t had the conversation with themselves about if “provider” and “protector” are even good things to want to be. Like most women I know have had a conversation with themselves about how they relate to gender roles and if they align with their values. Most men I know still sorta uncritically accept these roles
2026-08-20 19:47:34
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Duvessa🔪🩸💋 :
They want traditional women without doing their part
2026-08-21 05:09:47
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r0ad diary :
Theyre not real providers
2026-08-20 21:23:43
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🦇 :
a lot of girls also want to be seen as masculine, so they could be respected. as a child, - and even sometimes to this day- i always felt like i had to prove myself by doing typical male roles- carrying heavy things, opening the jars, doing all the forms, even down to the angry confrontations that ‘manly men’ tend to have.
2026-08-20 21:10:45
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JakeWhoDoe :
Women have always worked we just weren't compensated for our efforts especially women of color
2026-08-20 21:00:09
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Persephone Prim :
It’s simple. Men want a partner that fits all of the criteria for a traditional house wife without fitting the criteria of a true traditional husband
2026-08-21 03:09:53
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kelia :
I know a lot of men that are financial providers but not protectors and not emotional providers…
2026-08-20 20:48:54
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Marc :
women are being transvestigated all the time (ppl doubting their womanhood) based on their looks mainly so women have to also prove their womanhood and femininity. famously lady gaga, michelle obama, imane khelif and most recently audrey hobert. women who dont shave are considered manly etc. saying women dont have to prove their identity as men do is ignorant about the world around us.
2026-08-21 09:04:30
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Lilz_vi :
Ari is an anthropologist 😂
2026-08-20 19:20:16
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Aric Stickney :
"how do you preserve an identity built around being a provider when your wife is also providing?" easy, I'm in charge of providing food for the cat 🐈
2026-08-20 19:22:28
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Tiana Lea✨ :
My ex went from “you pay for nothing, I’m the man I provide” to “what do you bring to the table” in the span of three days. I was making a higher hourly wage than him the entire time and never said anything about it. Just let him talk himself in circles
2026-08-22 02:48:29
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Auntie Tanya’s House :
A man told me in a hypothetical scenario if I helped him make $2M, he’d give me $1M. I said I can just make $2M alone and keep it all myself, you’d still have nothing. They don’t think too far ahead. Partnership is a foreign concept.
2026-08-21 13:58:21
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danna_satti :
You’re a gem, btw
2026-08-20 18:53:59
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Indra K :
Some might say that “traditional” men want all of the status with none of the effort.
2026-08-20 21:44:48
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Kara :
i tried to speak to one of my close male friends about this exact thing. his responce was "no.... I wouldnt give her half my money, i would give her all of my money for her manage, she will know what bills need paid when and what everyone in the house needs if shes a stay at home mum, so shes better off managing it" i mean hes not wrong.... my flabbers were gasted that he actually saw stay at home wife/mother as the huge and important managerial role it is 😳. I was like... ok you can have a woman then 😂😂.
2026-08-21 09:55:49
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CJubone 🌹 :
My grandma, the first person to go to college in her family, always liked to point out that she was making more than my grandpa was when they started dating.
2026-08-20 22:53:18
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