@nicknamed.bree: This realization changes everything: We’re all avoidant to some degree…just depends on what exactly we’re actually avoiding… #avoidant #attachmentstyle
what if its your partner? its one thing for the dude on the street..its another when its someone you share a.life with??
2026-08-27 16:54:08
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Mr. Pibb :
if I wouldn't go to that person for advice, I don't care what they think of me
2026-08-24 06:53:36
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💛 :
I love your content! And this is so true. Insecure attachment is basically a nervous system that never learned how to regulate in a healthy way, because the people who were supposed to help you learn were inconsistent. And so the coping mechanisms end up being different types of avoidance, instead of learning how to sit with an uncomfortable feeling, and wait for it to settle (while the feeling is still there) before reacting. All insecure attachment is about trying to remove the uncomfortable feeling. In my opinion most insecure people are at the core disorganized, because insecurity is basically a spectrum. But some people lean more anxious, while others lean more dismissive.
2026-08-21 06:49:33
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derekaw :
Idc what people think about me and I don’t care what other people think about other people.
2026-08-20 20:09:16
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backpack :
I thought you were gonna say “cuz I’ve studied psych as long as I’ve lived” and I thought “wow that’s deep” 🐳
2026-08-21 03:36:42
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Jen :
I think this was the hardest part of my healing journey to untangle but once we do it’s emotional freedom 😍😍😍
2026-08-21 12:48:07
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Rosebud423 :
Omgosh, yes. I’ve been avoiding myself for years.
2026-08-20 22:07:00
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Bwahblahblah :
🤯
2026-08-20 20:58:30
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