Kina Wolfenstein
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pen0317 :
so I've known for decades I was royally fucked up as a child and I've been medicated and in therapy for many many years but your explanation of specific qualities or quirks I have makes me feel glad that someone can articulate what I'm feeling and why because Ive always had a hard time with it.
2026-09-09 10:24:14
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emma🌸 :
It really sucks being messed up by a chaotic family and then being blamed by those family members for being messed up….
2026-09-07 23:19:04
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taluviolaent :
The only safe place was in a book.
2026-08-20 23:38:38
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Thehighsees :
It legitimately never occurred to me that parents would help or explain emotions to a child. So…
2026-08-31 03:13:46
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Inna Grünwald :
Yep. I didn’t feel protected or prepared then and I don’t feel like it now that I’m an adult. That’s why I’m terrified of the world and of people and that’s why I NEED plan a, b, c, … overthinking, overgiving, overworking to make sure I’m okay.
2026-09-08 13:00:04
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Brittany Marie :
as a kid and even into my mid-twenties, I never went to either parent when something bad happened to me because I instinctively knew they would not only make it worse but that I would be in trouble.
2026-08-30 14:34:31
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Alissa Rachel :
Is it even possible to fully heal this? Cause after years of healing and CPTSD, it just sadly feels like it isn’t :(
2026-08-21 14:53:25
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G Vilk :
What’s your take on this during adolescence to balance nurturing and self reliance?
2026-09-07 21:27:40
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user97113723921401 :
Parents need parenting classes and it really is that serious
2026-08-24 19:16:52
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mollyann :
Every time I see one of your videos I have a moment of clarity where another piece of the puzzle clicks into place. Thank you.
2026-08-21 12:27:10
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Bri :
I experienced emotional neglect as a child and as a 35 year-old adult, I am actively working through anxiety and hypervigilance through EMDR therapy, self soothing and daily reminders that I am safe.
2026-08-21 13:54:51
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roselieeee :
the only safe place was my room. as an adult, anytime I have to make big decisions and have to deal with change, I shut down so quickly.
2026-08-22 14:28:48
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Bits n Bytes :
I had to put my authentic experiences behind an electrified fence and translate everything to meet my parents in the external world in the emotions, relationships, communication framework that my parents understood. YEARS of being told that how I would inherently explain things is Wrong, ended up where I lost all access to ME. I was made to meet expectations before I was ever allowed to learn my own limits.
2026-08-20 21:36:05
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3ofwater :
Each one of your videos makes me despise my patents more
2026-08-22 19:01:09
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Emblem :
I SWEAR this whole series has been lining up with everything that I have been processing. I think you’re helping so so many people ❤️
2026-08-20 22:54:15
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Rachael :
very me. i have to be prepared for everything so that nothing goes wrong cuz i can't handle it alone. i had a good therapist once and noticed myself taking more risks cuz i knew she would be there for me
2026-08-20 22:51:31
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kessbethler :
Then there’s no fixing this because it’s the *illusion* of safety that trains you to expect risks to turn out fine. After you grow up you intellectually understand risk, but you’ve emotionally internalized the illusion. If you miss that window, trying to convince yourself that someone is always there to save you is not going to work
2026-08-21 05:37:05
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absurdlymediocremama :
I spent so much time being worried about so many things… I would spend days almost sick to my stomach because I couldn’t ask for help. I would finally ask my grandma for help but it took literally my body almost falling apart.
2026-08-31 19:41:29
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No name :
Still very adventurous..just did everything terrified. Definitely felt like I was all alone.
2026-08-21 00:17:00
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carrie1602 :
I teach parents Circle of Security in the hopes of breaking generational trauma related to not having a secure base 👏🏻👏🏻
2026-08-22 14:16:22
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MsShrimpnGrits :
Ok…But the world really IS dangerous and overwhelming 👀
2026-08-20 22:51:31
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KLO.1.2.3 :
I’m from the “I don’t see any blood” or “is that blood? Let me get out my magnifying glass” generation.
2026-09-06 14:13:42
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Sarbop 🆘 🇺🇸 🆘 :
My dad was never the safe person. My mom was the one to comfort me from my dad’s abuse. But then she would rip out that comfort from under me after I was “calmed down”. Now it affects me in so many ways. That I never know when someone will rip their love away and so I am afraid of trusting too much.
2026-09-03 12:27:34
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HCC :
I have never been willing to take "risk". Everything I've always done has always been incredibly calculated. yup.
2026-08-23 03:00:41
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wolfecxqp5z :
Can this work the opposite way? I had the exact experience you are describing, but became that safe place for my kids. Sometimes I feel like they are not fearful enough…too willing to take risks.
2026-09-04 00:16:19
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