@becka.crowe: I wrote and revised this list MANY times I was very single for 3 years and during that time I was focused on building a life I loved and becoming the kind of person who could meet the love I was asking for. I got specific. Not just about the obvious things, but the little things that actually mattered to me. And yes, there were def times I wondered if I was asking for too much or if this person even existed. The day before I met Tony, I wrote it again. I wasn’t aiming for a number, it just happened to be 34 things. The next day, after getting frustrated and wondering why I STILL hadn’t met anyone, I had a very clear “download” in my mind to redownload a dating app. I had convinced myself I wouldn’t need one in Tulum because it was such an easy place to meet people if my person was actually there. But I listened to the nudge. Tony was my first and only conversation. Three days later, I fully showed him the list. Which sounds slightly crazy 😂 but the fact that he didn’t run away or think I was crazy told me a lot. He is every single item in that list. The right person won’t make you feel weird, too much or like you need to tone down the parts of yourself that make you who you are. They’ll like you for you. So get clear & get delusional!! In love, and honestly, in all areas of life. Don’t make what you want smaller just because you haven’t found it yet 🪄 I have so many more stories like this that I’ve been waiting to tell!!

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