@patrickgotit: what happens when someone doesn't respond

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Sage :

If they wanted to, they would.

2026-08-21 11:15:28

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🎀 :

Not true. I do get busy and I glance at my phone and I do see the message. BUT I don’t want to respond because I want to sit down and respond genuinely to someone not just a half answer. It’s not always like that and negative.

2026-08-21 14:27:41

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mamabearofcoffee☕️ :

I text my son every day but no answer but then his wife and my son says it’s a shame I never text but I do text and it says they read it.

2026-08-21 18:06:38

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rickie8928 :

I know someone who doesn’t look at the message for hours .. very busy

2026-08-21 08:53:43

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Matthew Sanchez :

NOBODY is busy to text back!

2026-08-21 12:46:56

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stephanie777 :

It’s not always that deep bro

2026-08-21 18:42:04

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✨Kim✨ :

It’s true!

2026-08-21 14:18:58

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Josephinecl57 :

Yeah that’s true If ‘ he love someone no excuses no explain 👏👏👏♥️♥️♥️💖💖💖💙💙💙

2026-08-21 04:02:28

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Victoria L :

Especially when there is something important to discuss. You don’t keep them on hold. It just shows you how much you are not important enough. It’s so disrespectful

2026-08-21 05:22:51

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rodisland.27 :

Meaning you are not important to that person so stop texting them.

2026-08-21 12:29:44

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Michelle :

Some people get distracted or forget

2026-08-21 14:34:10

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Daleen Nortje :

Never too busy for someone you care for

2026-08-21 11:13:53

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Darlene :

For sure!

2026-08-21 00:36:48

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gerty :

This Old chestnut 🌰

2026-08-21 18:52:40

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Tamez :

if they wanted to they would they're not interested

2026-08-21 03:27:51

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carla :

Heck they are also on their phone and still won't text

2026-08-21 05:27:26

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Dalia 🇨🇦✈️ :

true... facts

2026-08-21 04:57:57

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JAY BEE :

Facts

2026-08-21 08:34:36

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Carol Boyle755 :

You are right

2026-08-20 22:17:15

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EJ :

Just because my phone rings or I get a text doesn't automatically mean I am required to touch my phone or respond. This is a ridiculous take

2026-08-21 16:46:23

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Sweet Nancy :

No one is never too busy to respond or check in.

2026-08-21 12:43:07

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🎀💄🪶👛🌿💝🌻Hes🌸🦋🌧🤲👑🌊 :

True

2026-08-21 16:28:32

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paulalalalalaaaa :

You’re not making allowances for people going through something tough. Sometimes people need to just be with themselves. Doesn’t make for a good start to a romantic relationship, but true friends will understand.

2026-08-21 10:02:18

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Riley :

Sometimes I answered them in my mind and I really thought I did reply.

2026-08-21 18:28:43

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