it took me hurting them, losing them. to really look in the mirror. I’ll always miss them, & regret it everyday of my life. But I can’t feel guilt everyday. I’m becoming someone I was meant to become. I just hate it came with the expense of their feelings.
2026-08-22 01:37:27
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liamichelle :
You know what's crazy is I thought he was hurting me or trying to. It took time for me to realize It was me who wasn't just letting love exist naturally. I was forcing him to perform it for me to validate myself and validate that it's love. Hard pill to swallow I thought I was trying to teach him what love was but he's the one that actually showed me what it really is. The freedom to be who you both are as individuals and let go. I was anxiously attached and relied on him to soothe my nervous system when that's something we need to have within ourselves. I think love grows in freedom, not holding on as tight as you can.
2026-08-22 12:38:50
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2dyonis :
Seeing them leave made me realize i needed to do better (for myself too)
2026-08-21 17:11:33
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WorldofLiddles :
Got on my knees and asked God to remove everything in me that don’t belong
2026-08-22 01:36:59
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gxzmay :
regret is powerful, I miss him every day that comes I hate myself for being like that he was perfect
2026-08-23 06:27:59
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n i y a h :
being the other person, just know ts hurt like a mf & will always have em wondering why it couldn’t be them
2026-08-22 20:09:08
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Nakeisha🦋✨ :
Can I ask why did it take you hurting someone you cared for to change?
2026-08-21 03:13:24
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Soeli🦋 :
I wa stuck w my old behaviors and all the wrong that had been done to me I took it out on the one person that only deserved conditional love all he wanted was forever but I didn’t see that and only focused on my pain and didn’t realize I had a great man in front of me and hurts me everyday knowing I lost an amazing man i will love him forever and eternity. I understood he deserved more than me and I’m glad he found it
2026-08-22 19:28:22
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ghostdacity96 :
too real🤦🏽💯💯
2026-08-22 19:17:32
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Toy :
It’s called growth…keep winning, sir! 💪🏽
2026-08-20 23:10:59
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Dikkul :
yup 5 years down the drain cause I hurt the woman I loved the most. Tbh I aint ever dating again nor do I plan to.
2026-08-22 21:10:46
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keonijones :
Felt bro we going be alright king keep grinding & god first 💙🙏🏾
2026-08-22 10:53:19
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Elniño :
What’s the psychology to this?
2026-08-23 01:15:20
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lo :
It happens and it’s usually never intentional but ppl go thru different seasons. All that matters is u forgive yourself and be better. And guess what. No matter how much u love/loved them u can find true love again🥰
2026-08-23 03:48:51
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tana270 :
wish he cudda changed for me not because of me 💔
2026-08-22 23:34:34
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WOW
2026-08-22 15:15:26
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.loverboylightskinn :
Gods work fr
2026-08-22 14:34:57
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Dominque 🩷 :
At least you admit it, most don’t even have the balls to. May you find the love the person you really want.
2026-08-22 04:12:47
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Amanda Campbell :
That’s one that will make you change for life.
2026-08-22 14:52:21
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Latour Lee :
Trust!!!
2026-08-22 01:57:19
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EazyOnEmReck :
I think what also change me was seeing that somebody else will probably to all the things I shoulda done for her . Will always miss her but this is my redemption era 💯
2026-08-23 00:18:23
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MaKaeᥫ᭡ :
Oh so I gotta leave for him to find out 😭got it
2026-08-23 05:53:16
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myisolyn :
Absolutely hate that it had to come to that 😣 this lesson will not go unlearned!!!!!!
2026-08-23 01:12:20
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kemaaax :
Fr
2026-08-22 23:47:09
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