@eissshope: if you don’t have enough money to leave him, then you can’t afford to live with him. you never want to need a man. having your own money is not just nice to have, it is life saving and it gives you a better chance of seeing the relationship for what it is #boundaries #relationshipadvice #selfconfidence #emotionalintelligence #clarity

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sinosportscoach
Sinoxolo :
Always always always be in a position to house, clothe, feed and transport yourself…. Absolutely always, not negotiable at any point
2026-09-09 10:24:56
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ayesheboojie
AyeSheBoojie🤑 :
16 years 3 kids. no family or money to leave 🥲. I'll be okay i guess.
2026-09-08 20:40:21
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eemia_bobeea
Emia :
They will disarm you and say "let me take care of you". Then when they think they have you good and trapped, the mask falls off.
2026-09-03 17:36:41
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pickledcats1963
Pickledcats 🧿✨ :
Women need to start living together more! There’s a movement of single mothers living together making it work. It’s beautiful
2026-08-21 12:53:25
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_mckenzie_012
McKenzie :
Complacency. So painful
2026-09-10 00:57:54
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kskauldron
✨K’s Kauldron✨ :
This is 1 of many things but first example he complains about the food budget me going over but there is never any leftovers for the next day or lunch bc he eats 3 plates of dinner.. I asked him how the fck I’m still broke and struggling being married to u..
2026-09-09 14:39:36
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artistrybylise
Lise :
I studied hard and got into a good uni where I studied even harder to get a degree because that's what I was told would get me financially independent. Unfortunately the economy had different ideas. Women are the largest unemployment stat. It's not by choice
2026-08-21 10:16:34
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aimeenicole4377
Aimee Nicole :
This is my life now
2026-09-09 08:22:47
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pinnerz4dayz
pinnerz4dayz :
yep preach! i’m stuck because i let him allow me to be a sahm. he knew exactly what he was doing. i need to leave. i have to get us out. idk who i am anymore
2026-09-08 15:01:39
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juicycouturepurse
juicycouturepurse :
Literally I want my own apartment on the side I can go to, and maybe I can make it into an Airbnb or something to bring in extra cash. But I hate the idea of owning a Airbnb or being landlord.
2026-08-22 19:10:52
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heather.tee94580
heather.tee94580 :
For real men will even drive your household costs!!! My son’s father moved out at the end of June. Want to know how much my light and house gas bill was???? $156. When he lived here, it was $250-350 a month. You literally cannot afford to live with men.
2026-08-21 15:53:34
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ashefongugu
ashefongugu :
U never want to need a man… facts of life
2026-08-22 06:15:46
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b.elizabeth242
✨️ Brooke Elizabeth ✨️ :
ive done it twice, youre spitting facts. please ladies 😭 get the bag and keep the bag and build a life before you try to Disney princess this life 😭 im 33 with 3 kids starting from scratch for the second time 😮‍💨
2026-08-21 04:34:50
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tarah_r7
Tarah :
na listen to this. That advice will save lives
2026-08-21 11:26:53
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drouuue
Droue :
I grew up watching women being unable to take their agency because of money. I will never rely on a man.
2026-08-27 12:17:22
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identitycodewitha
identitycodewithamber :
I was making 10k a month and then as I was with him he limited me from working until I had no money and I can’t leave
2026-09-04 02:08:44
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natshinx
Nat :
Every day I'm more convinced that the best way to go about sharing your life with a man (if you don't plan on having children) is honestly for each of y'all to have your own place. Y'all can stay over at each other's but you don't depend on him
2026-08-21 23:11:36
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cj_77.77
cj_77.77 :
!!!!!!!! this is so important!!!
2026-08-21 03:23:24
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ghostgurlwrld
Ghost Gurl :
Me realizing a long time ago why my son’s abusive father would try and try and try and try to convince me to live with his Parents in his hometown….. THANK GOD I NEVAAAA
2026-08-21 10:39:34
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babyde_r
Babyde_r :
Not just monetary but they will drain you emotionally. But personally, I cannot afford to leave, never again. never never never don’t have your own
2026-09-01 12:15:11
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shrekqueenohyeh
shrekqueen :
This applies to jobs too! always need to have F off money
2026-08-21 23:00:25
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feylabourtheory
FeyLabourTheory :
And when you realize how society is stacked against you from leaving being appealing. High rent, cost of living, pink taxes, lower wages are all designed to discourage you leaving.
2026-08-21 14:13:50
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yenzie_swazi
Yenzi :
I’m 25 and I’m in such a difficult position- I thought the only way I can stay in a relationship is if I get financially dependent on him, and I was right. So I did - now I can’t leave. I got exactly what I wanted and now I hate it
2026-08-21 18:42:59
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ems_potatogems
Em 🩷💜💙 :
but if you do not have enough money to leave him, because you've got into a situation which is dangerous for you or your children, ask other women. especially older and divorced women. they will help.
2026-08-22 01:02:36
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