Grief can creep up on you so quietly, then suddenly, you feel everything at once.
2026-08-21 17:25:04
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Ene :
Be a man keh….when someone is hurting? Hmmm it is well
2026-08-21 12:31:54
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Nguffy0 :
Grief taints your joy... You can be happy and the next thing guilt hits you. Why am I happy when my person died? This joy should've been shared with them. Then imagine the pain you feel, you can't share with that one person... Sucks.
2026-08-21 18:52:12
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𝓘𝓿𝓲𝓮 𝓙𝓸. :
“Be a man my friend “ such a backwards statement. people think they can intellectually describe grief. I’m so sorry. The burden is a heavy one. May God continue to comfort and strengthen you.
2026-08-21 17:41:49
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⋆. 𐙚˚࿔ 𝐞𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐞̃𝐧 𑣲𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
Be a man??? Omfg! I’m so sorry you had to go through this❤️.Grief is such a weird concept…Men are human beings before they are “male” and humans are allowed to get hurt!!!
2026-08-21 22:06:50
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Ogbu Philip :
Literally me everyday. my dad used to randomly stop at my workplace to chat. he even passed by on his last day before he was hit by a bike while exercising. I always look up expecting to see him smiling and commending me. Then it hits me at once. Terrible feeling. may God comfort us🥲
2026-08-21 17:24:37
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J👸 :
Wtf is be a man… jezzz 🤦♀️, sorry for your loss
2026-08-21 17:13:52
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crazy_villian2 :
It dosent get better with time unfortunately
2026-08-21 17:40:43
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Beulah :
Who is that that said be a man???? Is that person for reallllll????
2026-08-21 16:59:42
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Afieeesss :
No literally flashes of the my dad pop up randomly during my day.
2026-08-21 19:32:02
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公主💕 :
Omo you can’t explain the hurt of loosing someone you love to someone that hasn’t experienced it. “Be a man” is such and insensitive thing to say
2026-08-21 19:34:40
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Uche princess Favour :
“Be a man my friend” 😳 is that person crazy?
2026-08-21 18:45:59
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Abuja wig stylist/ventilator :
Such a terrible thing to say. So men don’t have emotions or what? It is well
2026-08-21 14:48:48
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Its_kaun :
Flashbacks be so random
2026-08-21 15:20:54
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𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓕𝓻𝓪𝓷𝓬𝔂ᥫ᭡ :
Imagine me being an only child.. loosing my dad then my mum in the space of one year..something died in me.. I am not the same anymore
2026-08-21 17:51:43
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HANDMADE FOOTWEAR IN OWERRI :
‘Be a man my friend ‘🤦🏾♀️💔….omoh it’s well…My condolence ❤️
2026-08-21 13:10:34
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Zibs🩷✨ :
my mom d*ed in my arms so the flashbacks,even at work omo
I still can't fathom it
2026-08-21 17:35:36
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Cleopatra’s Diary🌸 :
“Be a man, my friend” is such an insensitive statement. Sending you so much love.❤️
2026-08-21 15:32:25
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LamLam :
Such an insensitive thing to say to someone grieving. So sorry for your loss stranger buried my father in January i can relate🥹
2026-08-21 17:05:43
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Shoke🥀🤍 :
This is something you never truly recover from. With time, it may become less overwhelming, but perhaps even more painful in ways you never expected. I just pray that God gives you the strength to carry it, to keep going, and to find peace even while carrying a loss that may always remain a part of you.🙂
2026-08-21 17:52:15
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Ucj Amara :
You really can’t explain this type of pain… yesterday was my late sister’s boyfriend’s birthday and I was cried cos he didn’t get any text or call from her… she’s literally the first person you’d hear from on your birthday. Had to wish him on her behalf
2026-08-21 18:01:41
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Happiness :
Be a man is the worse thing that happened to African men. Be a man is suppose to mean don’t cry, suppress how you feel and act strong. Please allow people grief and feel this emotion the best way they think fit. I’m sorry for your loss sending you love and hugs ❤️
2026-08-21 16:44:33
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Life_of_shewa//Video Editor :
They will always be in our heart till eternity……8 years has passed I still remember my dad’s last word… I know you can’t see this but I LOVE YOU SO MUCH DADDY…..I promise to make You and GOD proud 🫂
2026-08-21 14:52:21
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Yogini :
Awww🥹
2026-08-21 15:41:36
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Southymo :
You see this phrase, 'be a man' I detest it so much.
So men aren't allowed to be emotionally vulnerable?
Who invented this statement or started itttt
2026-08-21 19:35:01
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