@lettersbyaristhel: Kafka once wrote, “Time teaches us to live without them.” But Dostoevsky put it this way: “You do not move on from someone you loved; you simply learn how to carry their absence without letting anyone see how heavy it is.” #lovepoetry #Love #poetry

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cindie.o
Cindie O. :
Dostoevsky is the true romantic !
2026-08-24 19:50:17
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itssoullfire
Soulfire🦀♋👑 :
Kafka once wrote, "Time teaches us to live without them," but Dostoevsky said, "You do not move on from someone you loved. You simply learn how to carry their absence without letting anyone see how heavy it is."
2026-08-21 15:40:38
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waitingduck123
Clear.Image :
I hope the voice is real.
2026-10-11 09:17:10
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joanokash2
joanokash2 :
so true 😭
2026-10-11 01:21:52
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ria35kg
NinaR :
Dostoevsky was right…. 😭
2026-08-29 22:49:34
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dunjamaj
Dunjamaj :
"Dostoevsky knew what it meant to lose someone you can never replace. I didn't truly understand that until I lost my mother. It is a loss so profound that you carry it with you always.
2026-08-26 22:02:47
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karma_au79
Karma :
move on
2026-10-12 03:50:07
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benreu20
benreu2 :
Grief is the fog that makes simple things feel impossible. It's the disconnect between your heart and your head. It's waking up in a world that looks the same while you feel completely rearranged inside. It's knowing that life keeps going while part of you is still standing there the moment everything changed Grief is also the love you shared with them and the knowing that it gets easier with time , that you learn to live with it , and grow around it . That’s the part you must choose for yourself. To put it simply , there are two stages of grief : who you were before …and who you became after 😢🙏
2026-08-24 23:59:18
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32tgod
32” :
Both correct
2026-10-11 16:27:17
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kenya45678
Sona123 :
Time teaches you how to stand alone—not because you wanted to, but because sometimes the pain becomes too heavy to share. You carry it quietly until it travels through every vein, becoming a part of you. The pain of losing the one you loved teaches you how painful it is to live without them, and only the heart that has lived through it can truly understand. Yet, even after learning to stand alone, we still carry their everything within us—their memories, their voice, their presence, and all the love that once made us feel whole.
2026-08-21 16:20:03
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ladyofautumn
🍂 :
I agree with Dostoevsky on this!
2026-08-21 16:48:00
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rexarchdesignz
❤️TRUTH❤️ :
you do not move on from someone you love , you simply learn how to carry their absence without letting anyone see how heavy it is.
2026-08-21 14:22:10
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kp382025
KP :
And they are both correct
2026-08-21 17:14:27
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nina40654
Nina :
Kafka died young.
2026-08-30 21:12:25
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soniaperper
soniaperper :
Deep down they both said the same.🙂👁
2026-08-31 06:52:03
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richbaylogistics
Rich Bay Logistics :
Maybe they were both right. Time teaches us how to live without someone, but it never truly teaches the heart to forget. We move forward, we laugh, we love again, yet somewhere inside us, their absence remains—a quiet weight we learn to carry without letting it define us. Some people leave our lives, but never completely leave us.
2026-08-21 18:24:43
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ziggykillaly1971
Ziggykillaly1971 :
nothing prepares you for grief it's the final knife in the heart
2026-08-25 20:22:52
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christareid72
user2960856033707chrissy :
10 years since my eldest 19 near 20 year old passed it numbs kills and fills with so much hurt every anniversary I died when he did but still live
2026-08-27 18:38:11
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vanessayurichin
vanessayurichin :
This is beautiful
2026-08-25 03:19:14
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user3180324293512
donna :
This hits hard…🤔🫠😑
2026-08-22 00:29:17
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kpdduc955
KPD526728 :
Maybe Kafka and Dostoevsky were fair representatives of typical humans. Kafka’s statement could (I emphasise could) be perceived as reflecting less depth of feeling and potentially even flippant. The latter statement to me shows true love when referencing the heaviness of the emotion which is enduring.
2026-09-02 01:58:07
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amoebaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Mars :
I agree with Dostoevsky. You don’t really move on, your days just continue around their absence. You miss them some days, some days they don’t even cross your mind, and some days they are everywhere in everything. Some days, you try to brush it off. Sometimes, the absence is in the moments you spend with someone who is still there, but not in the way they used to be. And sometimes, the person themselves simply isn’t there anymore. It’s strange, isn’t it, how our minds work and how we process emotions, how we can be okay and not okay at the same time, yet somehow, life keeps going, most of the time, without them.
2026-08-30 09:48:16
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sizweh372
Sizweh :
I am starting to like Kafka. More realistic for me.
2026-08-21 14:03:46
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jenco369
Jenny Alejandra :
I love poetry 💞 Yo amo la poesía ❤️
2026-08-21 15:51:15
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moruzive1
'Mo'Ruzive :
Two master observers of human suffering capturing the exact duality of grief. 📖✨
2026-09-19 15:34:10
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