My ex bestie didn't attend my mother's funeral in 2013 we continued our friendship...When she sent me her wedding invitation last year everything came back and I didn't attend her wedding😭😭
2026-08-25 04:10:10
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Nonhle :
This is me 😭 10 years later … trauma response
2026-09-17 09:13:05
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anitha_nkala :
I do that kwi relationship.... I dnt confront I leave
2026-09-17 06:36:52
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misscooper_18 :
I blocked my uncle for something he said in 2010. He still doesn't understand!
2026-08-22 04:59:30
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🍓Tanya Tallberry🍓 :
It's called trauma response your body remembering what your mind ignored
2026-08-21 18:10:44
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nolu_raty💋 :
I thought I was crazy kodwa ke I’m not alone
2026-08-21 15:41:37
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Gugulabo Mkhwanazi :
It's low self esteem, I used to think ngiyakwazi ukubekezela or ukubindela when people do me wrong and I couldn't react instantly, but now I know ukuthi it was low self esteem.
2026-08-22 07:49:52
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💦Nomvula❤️ :
the problem is those people will be defensive if u confront yohh
2026-08-21 14:08:17
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pumzathegemini♊️ :
Mina I confront you then I cut you off and pretend zange kwenzeka lutho, life goes on
2026-09-16 08:32:17
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Mihle :
Mina I react later but not like you
You do it now, my mind will revisit the conversation the day after or few hours later.
I don't confront but my anger won't allow me, ngingaboshwa
2026-09-18 11:36:31
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Sunsẽt :
After that I block you unawares.
2026-08-21 15:13:39
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Daddy's girl for pirates ☠️ :
I think it's called delayed reaction but yours is extreme though, and on the flip side it is not fair for the next person because you deny them an opportunity to realize their mistake to rectify or apologize because at times we don't realize when we hurt people more so when it is not your intention.
2026-08-21 18:29:47
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Kattykay07 :
I broke up with my now ex ka lebaka la ntho tsa 2022.
2026-08-21 15:10:26
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Lungelo_Makhathini :
I also have delayed reactions 😂
2026-08-22 06:14:46
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VeeMabhida :
it's empathy burnout.. when you've been a people's pleaser for iskhathi eside then 1 day your body decides it's enough
2026-08-26 04:37:06
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Mommy_Dee :
Ended a friend of 5 years few months ago for things she said and done over the years …. I react very late 🤦🏽♀️trauma response annoys me
2026-08-23 05:15:45
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mamdluli28 :
Let me tell you abantu thy are very very aware abakwenzayo abakhohlwa trust me
2026-08-29 12:05:55
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thiwe🌻 :
Mina bandla ngiyapheya
2026-08-27 12:29:02
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A🤍 :
finally found my people
2026-08-22 03:25:33
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precious_gold_m :
Are you a Scorpio?
2026-08-22 12:41:37
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MissTee2 :
Yhoooo I jst discovered I'm like dat too.
2026-08-21 15:33:31
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Makhupe Tshehla Xaba :
I thought it’s me only
2026-08-21 15:59:33
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bubu :
I think i have disease coz my memory is coming back and I don't regret cutting some people off coz why bongenza njalo
2026-08-21 18:10:53
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_Mamiie_Mooi_ :
I’m exactly like that I’ve been questioning myself because it also makes me moody sometimes I don’t confront but decide to stop speaking to that person😩
2026-08-22 10:11:07
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Promise Phat :
u slow sthandwa sami ufana nami ❤️😂
2026-08-21 20:46:07
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