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Everyone sees him as the perfect husband while at home he is a stranger to me.
2026-08-22 18:14:58
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inglowfitnesswellbeing :
Yep great provider, great father, great friend, will jump through hoops to help anyone…. And yet completely emotionally neglectful dismissive avoidant husband. He’s become a source of danger to my nervous system.
2026-08-25 09:08:23
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🐾🐾LABSROCK07❌❌ :
We are all married to the same man…
2026-08-21 19:32:42
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user15606395322 :
This is my husband. It’s lonely. I’m ready to leave my twenty year marriage.
2026-08-23 04:02:58
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♍️ JP :
This was my dad! I grew up thinking he was literally Superman, he could do no wrong. I hated how my mom was a total witch with him. Until...... I grew up & understood completely why she was so unhappy & angry. 😔
2026-08-21 19:03:01
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Andrea :
Married -single. This is my husband, I can’t take it anymore. I’m really done
2026-08-21 20:42:34
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user1855448723916 :
I’m married to a dismissive avoidant. He’s quiet. Good provider. Also a poor listener and poor communicator. I do not feel like an equal partner because I feel like my ideas, feelings, thoughts, opinions don’t matter. Hearing is not the same as listening. I want my voice to matter
2026-08-24 21:16:42
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Sara.thatMom :
If a man doesn’t support you when you struggle emotionally, he will be a driving force into your madness. Ask me how I know.
2026-10-08 03:39:46
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TaiVil 💗 :
So sad to deal with someone like this.
2026-10-07 22:02:17
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user1946187963438 :
THIS! Thank you for putting this into words. My husband is a great individual. He is so great as his own person, but when it comes to being a marital partner he’s awful because that requires reciprocity, care/concern, empathy, compromise, working thru issues and seeing things things from my perspective. He shouldn’t be married. He should be single.
2026-08-21 15:56:31
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HootsMcToots :
This is 100% my husband. He’s a good man and a good father, but is completely inept of connecting with me emotionally. My mental health has been struggling quite a bit and I cannot talk to him about it because he lacks empathy and won’t engage in a conversation with me about it. I can’t talk to him about anything going on with me because it’s ignored. I’ve told my close friends this and it’s hard for them to believe because everyone loves my husband. I’m fully preparing to leave him, once my kids are out of the house.
2026-08-23 17:51:18
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ColombianMama79 :
omg wow this is exactly what I've been saying. this is my husband to a T.... he's a good person, hard worker, great father....but partner 😪👎.... sad really. the loneliness when he's home is so loud....but when im alone ...its so peaceful
2026-08-23 19:43:25
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Jenny Garcia :
literally my life
2026-10-08 01:07:14
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Misunderstood :
They are horrendous people to be married to.
2026-08-22 03:40:44
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Fragile Steele :
So you have met my husband.
2026-08-21 15:39:24
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Marie Montrose672 :
You are not happy but you have no reason to leave. Loneliness not completely satisfied yet you can’t go nowhere
2026-08-25 16:35:13
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Great Lakes Crone :
The bar is so low.
2026-08-21 16:42:16
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. :
I always have to find the right time to tell him things…..
2026-08-23 21:24:01
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Chrissy Joi | Travel CuratorⓂ️ :
Married-single 😏
2026-08-21 19:02:36
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hootswiththeowls :
Most are nicer to strangers than they are to their own wife
2026-08-31 13:19:58
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Lynsay gibbs :
This is my husband. He doesn’t touch me, compliment me or anything like that. It’s very very lonely. I’m sad
2026-09-19 02:44:19
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Bri :
Where is the group for people who have given up hope?
2026-08-24 04:25:08
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Kailey :
It’s hard to leave when I have no biblical grounds to leave and I don’t want to blow up my kids lives.. so I’m just miserable
2026-08-29 16:37:32
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