@christie.heals: Families are estranged because of a growing gap in consciousness across the generations. ❤️ It’s not that we don’t love you, we just can’t get you to come with us. #toxicfamily #nocontact #millennial #boomer #estrangement

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ltman17
🦒🦒🦒 :
Historically, this “trend” belonged to the parents. Gay? Cut off. Denounce religion? Cut off. Marry outside your race? Cut off. Pregnant outside of marriage? Sent away/cut off. Like. This has always been a thing where families are no contact
2026-08-22 12:32:16
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thriveinspite
lunacapricorn :
“They begged they pleaded” -to keep the dynamic the same
2026-08-21 19:45:01
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candace.ranee.moon
candace.ranee.moon :
That woman is gaslighting her estranged child in this video
2026-08-22 04:40:15
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carolyncottin
carolyncottin :
I went no-contact with my parents more than 20 years ago. I guess I was waaay ahead of this “trend”.
2026-08-21 21:31:07
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moon_pie3000
kat :
I love that they always talk about therapy but have never actually tried going themselves
2026-08-21 16:14:07
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athenaphoebos
AthenaPhoebos :
I want her to adopt me so I can cut her off
2026-08-21 23:30:35
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angelamcavoy28
Angela :
Thank you for stitching this!!! Therapy is not the problem!! It’s parents like this who DO NOT take responsibility. As soon as I “remembered” that my father SA’d me as a child. I was the problem. We need more people like you!!
2026-08-21 20:56:19
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executivedysfunctional
Executivedysfunction :
Parents that needed to be cut off are never going to understand any of this.
2026-08-22 13:23:12
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hanging.rose.asmr
Hanging Rose ASMR :
1. I'm too broke for therapy. made this decision all on my own when I finally chose myself 2. in my case, my parent never once took accountability. she's always right. and every message has been AT me. not even attempting to talk with me.
2026-08-21 18:33:58
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praxxus
Praxxus :
Therapists helps you identify options, not tells you what to do
2026-08-22 23:33:37
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alicedivi
Alice Di Giacinto :
dude like therapists aren't professionals that had years of study. this like saying that removing your wisdom teeth is a trend dentists invented
2026-08-22 06:59:15
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migypie
Migypie :
What's wild is I didn't actually cut my mom off. I just stopped being the one to make phone calls or send texts. I realized in 2018 that I was the one always reaching help, so I decided around October to wait and see if she would reach out. I didn't hear from her on Thanksgiving, Christmas, and nearing my birthday nothing. Then I had to change my number because of issues, but she still has my dad's number which has not changed. She never reached out to me once, not even during the pandemic.
2026-08-23 16:30:02
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waterytart207
Kat :
She absolutely *does not* hate saying I told you so
2026-08-23 01:06:41
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jayden_nite
Jayden_Nite :
imagine mocking setting boundaries... like what?
2026-08-21 22:58:08
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misseymindset
Misseymindset :
Yes!! Cutting off parents is saving me right now
2026-08-23 09:59:24
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roterteufel11
Carina :
I don’t want „repair“ and apologies. I‘m beyond caring about them. I just want my peace and to be away from them forever. Not every estranged child wants to „renew“ a relationship, or grieves or misses them.
2026-08-22 06:30:27
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ash_and_ember00
Ash_and_Ember00 :
Even in that last part of the video, she was still minimizing the feelings of the adult child in question.
2026-08-23 02:16:53
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trae_the_arrogant89
Trae_Be_Yappin :
I thank God my mother owned her mistakes and dropped her pride and our relationship grew so much because of it.
2026-08-24 12:43:09
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dopaminemunchking
Lovely Green Goblin :
Shes says accountable for what😂😂
2026-08-21 19:35:49
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thegenericbaldmillennial
TheGenericBaldMillenial :
Damn, because I did it completely without a therapist, wild.
2026-08-23 10:48:38
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itsmisshospitality
Miss Hospitality :
It’s strange because I watched my mom and aunts cut my grandma off and my grandma left her parents at one point… this is not a new concept
2026-08-23 12:45:15
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jg_orionis
JG Orionis | Narrator/VA :
I'm apparently a truth teller, and my parents couldn't handle hearing the truth about their actions and how it impacted me. that's especially what my therapist said when I talked to them about it all and showed the text strings to them
2026-08-21 21:42:06
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murphy.mockingjay
Murphy MockingJay :
I legitimately thought she was being sarcastic for WAY too long because my brain refused to believe someone actually thought like this!
2026-08-21 23:04:30
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skaamster
$kaam$ter :
a normal adult doesn't wake up on a random Tuesday and decide to cut off family. its a major step that comes with so much hurt, tears, panic attacks,etc. and after multiple attempts over years at trying to better the relationship with the relative at the cost of the person doing the cutting. the adult kid deals with so much more than you know. you wouldn't wish it on your worst enemy. who told you they begged, pleaded and were accountable and still got cut? I'm so happy for you that you never had to make this choice. that no one cut you that deep repeatedly.
2026-08-21 20:38:45
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datdude_p
Galatians 6:7 :
I just buried my mom that I was no contact with and though I miss the relationship and bond that we didn’t have, I have no regrets.
2026-08-23 12:49:34
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