i personally love saying something meanish and nice in the same sentence like “you’re too cute to be as cocky as you are”
2026-08-21 23:23:05
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the_amethyst :
I naturally do #2 in a lot of areas in a joking, almost roasting myself a little, way, and it ALWAYS results in an invitation for them to beginning say incredibly mean things to me. I don't know what it is about me that makes this ok, I always figured it was a poor form of flirtation for me, even though it feels very natural.
2026-08-23 14:01:05
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Starfall :
How do you stop doing flirty banter when you’re trying to do friendly banter? People keep thinking I’m into them because I like messing around with people 😭
2026-08-21 20:33:35
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RottyKatty :
Maybe some more examples?? I think I don't get it how it should look like
2026-08-21 17:31:54
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SillySpinningHorses :
What if they compliment and you say “Ik, thank you”
2026-08-22 06:28:32
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Charles C R :
one thing ive noticed Amelia dimoldenburg does on her show chicken shop date, is whenever she accidentally obersteps she just... says the opposite of whatever was offensive. the "you're short" joke goes too far? then she'll just say "you're actually kinda tall." idk how but it seems to work every time
2026-08-21 16:08:20
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Jennifer Marie :
“Oh dang that was actually really impressive” for the competitive game ones does WONDERSSSS when you’ve been picking on them all night 😭
2026-08-21 21:16:54
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the__alexorcist :
so what happens when im vehemently mean to men, not trying to flirt at all (trust), and they smile and continue the banter. theres no balance happening. just mean.
2026-08-22 17:17:24
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Shadows of Elysium :
This is the ONLY area of flirting I’m good at naturally
2026-08-21 18:43:31
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hottakepancake :
When we’re roasting back and forth and they say something insanely funny, I break character and laugh which sparks a sweet, shared laughter for the both of us. I’ll say something like you’re funny, I think I’ll keep you around
2026-08-23 02:56:41
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Salmon :
So basically. Be alittle mean with the 100% intention of not meaning what you say?
2026-08-21 17:08:54
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user2061828755237 :
Teasing people is great! But it’s easy to hit the wrong nerve. Tease them about the one thing they feel bad about then it kills the vibe.
2026-08-21 16:31:06
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toastedSloth :
I've dated multiple people who are the, "my type of humor is sarcastic so if you cant handle that then you can't handle me" type. and they could've benefited from hearing the "balance with genuine kindness and compliments" lesson in this video.
2026-08-21 16:55:28
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HoneyBeeMace🐝 :
This is flirty??? Am I that socially inept ??
2026-08-22 19:13:07
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siren songs :
So good at flirty banter that I do it unintentionally
2026-08-22 00:28:37
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eaternextdoor :
i think I’m accidentally meaner than i intend to be and then i fumble the recovery so i genuinely just don’t try
2026-08-22 01:46:02
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Finding Your Home in Philly :
This is also applicable to friendship without the interest of romance. You make 3 jokes or jokingly negative things you need to hand a lot more kindness to make it stand out as funny and engaging.
2026-08-21 17:08:56
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Rori / Rory / Roy :
I genuinely can’t banter I just end up being straight up mean or so explicitly flirting and making dirty jokes😭
2026-08-21 21:39:39
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Chava :
the problem is this is how I treat people I DON'T want to flirt with and it comes off as flirting, like I do it to get them to leave me alone and it makes them flirt more..
2026-08-22 13:36:35
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Mordecai :
I’m too competitive for the pool flirting, it’s why I can’t do bowling alley dates 😬
2026-08-21 21:23:44
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cara combs :
I LOVE BANTER AHHHHH
2026-08-23 04:10:15
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AAAAAHHna :
I do this sometimes but didn't realize that it was coming off as flirting ... things start to makes sense now 🙃
2026-08-23 02:16:16
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ashash355 :
I go too far everytime. my husband can't tell when I'm joking 😬
2026-08-21 18:00:58
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