Drew Daniels
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Friday 21 August 2026 17:48:05 GMT
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MindMoss ✨ :
avoidant men confuse "Doing the work" with "Thinking about the discomfort that doing the work will cause for only them."
2026-08-21 20:49:56
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Chikableh :
It’s frustrating when you’re the FA and heal both the anxious AND avoidant parts and yet the DA partner refuses to even try. I know the work that goes into it. I let myself open up and be vulnerable, I know how hard it is. He’s just not ready and I don’t know how much longer I can wait around for him to get there
2026-08-23 21:59:51
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mooonmama🌛🌝🌜 :
I'm done putting more energy into understanding him than he is putting into understanding himself. I'm done providing insights that never get integrated, building every bridge, initiating and facilitating every repair. It's definitely his turn, but the decades of my labor have taken their toll. It might be too late for anything he does to make a difference. I think that is part of the "I'm done phase". I'm no longer waiting for a version of him that doesn't exist. If he has something to share, I will listen. But my priority now is me and my well-being, not the relationship. I'm done being depleted by him.
2026-08-23 17:04:18
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tit tat tarot :
When I hit this point with my ex he didn’t take me seriously until I kicked him out of the bedroom into the office. Now I have my own suite to myself, a whole loft area if I want to come out of my room but it’s massive so I don’t need to ever. I don’t cook except heating frozen or pre cooked things that are store prepared. No cleaning common spaces I don’t do laundry and absolutely don’t give any of my time or attention to my ex. It’s been almost a year and I’m really finally at peace and absolutely loving this dynamic. He does all the things I used to and I don’t bother to even eat meals with him. I take it to my room. No family dinners. Just peace and calm and my energy to myself. It’s absolutely beautiful.
2026-08-22 02:26:16
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Penny 🪙 :
I needed this
2026-08-22 12:23:01
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Ryanne 😛 :
sooo do I break up with him or nah? literally just got done crying about this exact issue, I'm exhausted
2026-08-21 18:03:30
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kriisykins :
I’m so glad to hear someone something that isn’t negative around this kind of relationship. Maybe it sounds confusing but THIS is what I’m talking about. “Even if you become a better person in therapy that doesn’t make you open to a partner.” Is what I sent to my partner after this video. I love them so much. But how do I get them to know that door is what’s locking me out??
2026-08-22 04:00:38
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____gh_28 :
“My heart’s not in it anymore” and they haven’t tried to work on anything ever
2026-08-22 15:03:31
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Kelly :
Yup, malicious compliance it is. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-08-23 00:13:46
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j :
Yes!!! I’m not playing by these rules anymore!!! It is DESTROYING me. Nope.
2026-08-22 14:41:24
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MamaB :
This is perfect
2026-08-21 21:20:45
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Tropical D Pression :
I got to this point and then she discarded me because she felt cornered. it was great.
2026-08-22 21:09:31
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