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Knomes :
Omg I thought I was just a bitch 😭
2026-08-21 20:07:12
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Kait 💭 :
Oh look my fyp has told my I’m autistic again today
2026-08-22 00:30:55
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J :
Oh my god. How do we fix it???
2026-08-21 19:45:47
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pinksprinkles33333 :
I fixed this with my partner by creating a system (well actually it was his idea 😂) So right when he comes home we do an hour window of no acknowledgment. That way I can adjust without taking it out on him. Then after the hour we only engage by me being the one to initiate the conversation (so it feels like my choice). There are good days where I don’t need this system and bad days where I’m not ready to talk to him until like 9 pm 🤷♀️😂 But it works for us, neither of us take it personally and I feel zero pressure on my end. It’s been 5 years and I feel really lucky to have such an accommodating partner ❤️
2026-08-22 02:47:07
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mynamejess__ :
this is SO HARD TO EXPLAIN!!!! I am not upset at you 😭 I just cant put on a smile and fake voice anymore
2026-08-21 21:45:24
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Urmomshldhvswallowed :
I THOUGHT I WAS INSANE
2026-09-02 03:45:31
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Devona McEndree :
could this be a transition issue ? going from alone time to being monitored with the heavy expectation of another being around you is sometimes an entirely different environment.
2026-08-21 21:43:08
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Renny :
A big memory from my childhood is experiencing this. I’d come home and have a really hard time regulating. My parents would complain that I’m “so good at school, why can’t I be good at home too?” I’d tell them I can’t act all day. They’d tell me I should be saving the “good version” of me for the people I love. Which felt really isolating, knowing they wanted the masked version of me.
2026-08-21 22:04:03
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shay 🍒 :
well how do i FIX IT
2026-08-21 21:28:30
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j m :
oh my god there's a fucking name for it ?!
2026-08-22 07:03:39
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i have to have alone time right away when i get home or im a monster :/
2026-08-21 21:02:52
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lightnitro :
Learning about this isn't license to continue this. People should use this to better understand themselves and figure out an outlet that's healthier for both themselves and their partner
2026-08-22 21:28:18
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Kate Ashlee :
yes okay understandable but you cannot do this to a person all the time because there's actually a name for that too, "making someone your punching bag"
2026-08-28 15:44:43
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ShoshiesMinis :
Just wait til perimenopause! it’s even rougher for us neurospicy gals
2026-08-21 20:58:01
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Honeyclark :
How do we fix it ?? 🥺
2026-09-02 01:19:43
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lara suzanne ♡✩°｡ :
Wait this is an autism thing and not me being a bitch thing
2026-08-22 01:44:00
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Zoe Wiese :
I want him to come. I need him home. He comes I’m annoyed. I hate it.
2026-08-22 11:40:48
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Make America Emo Again :
I fear this is me. As soon as I come home I’m like this
2026-08-21 23:06:23
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Caped Crusaders Cat Rescue :
Yeah, you can name this behavior and have a blame for this behavior, but that doesn’t inherently make the behavior okay unfortunately. This is one of those things that you need to work on as a partner. Your partner still has feelings and emotions, too. ♥️And self-growth is important and possible.
2026-08-22 11:50:25
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CoreyDunkerson :
As a husband I completely understand my wife is the same way but I get tired of being the punching bag at some point something has to give.
2026-08-22 21:13:53
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Iaem88 :
Giving a behavior a clinical-sounding name doesn’t automatically make it an excuse. If autism makes emotional regulation harder, that explains the struggle, but it doesn’t remove responsibility for how you treat other people. Understanding the cause and expecting accountability can coexist.
2026-08-22 16:15:35
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Christie :
I hate it, they don’t deserve it. It’s worse when they’re nice about it when you’ve just been a bitch for an hour and want to sink into the floor and they’re just like, have you eaten today. Not that I want them to get mad but it would be an understandable response.
2026-08-30 12:12:21
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Mischka :
anything but fucking accountability. Jesus Christ y'all just excusing and labeling every toxic behavior
2026-08-22 14:18:01
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katie gemfinsta.gram :
still our responsibility imo (autistic adult here too!) to take steps towards some type of resolution instead of just throwing up hands and saying "I'm irritable, deal with it"
2026-08-28 21:15:01
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