You’re meeting a stranger for a 1st date. It’s safer for women to provide their own transportation for a first date.
2026-08-21 19:59:34
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dsdsds :
Why did you choose a place close to you and 30mins away from her? That’s the red flag!
2026-08-23 02:24:45
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fdukncfu :
The truth is if she respected him she wouldn’t have even asked, he just called her out on it
2026-08-22 01:40:50
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Domingo Black :
Once a girl i was dating wanted me to drive 30 min from my spot get her then drive to LA which was a hr away from where i live then drive her home then me drive home. 3hr 30 min driving on top of me paying for the date it self lmao all together would have been close To $250 for the date but changed plans where i only dropped $120 then in the end she said i don’t do extravagant enough dates and then friend-zoned me 😂
2026-08-23 19:46:22
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Katfeva :
Guess you don’t like her enough.
2026-08-23 11:34:36
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Smoove Aaron :
Picking her up ain’t that bad but her lying about the reason for an uber is definitely a red flag
2026-08-22 15:58:58
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arilove :
I don’t really see the big deal. He wants a girl with a car that will drive herself . That’s fine. I mean for me, I like getting picked up, just what I’m used to.
2026-08-22 11:40:51
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mags1car :
That’s exactly what I said! If she really liked you, she would find her way to the date… that’s the least she could do
2026-08-23 13:52:10
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operationstack :
Men need to get some respect for themselves. Keep preaching the gospel bro
2026-08-22 15:26:30
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_dammdaniel :
FIRST, this sounds like an initial meet & greet - that is NOT a date so dating chivalry is not in play. IF after their first meeting he wanted to pursue her then I would say, yes, pick her up or she can drive to his place and he can drive from there.
2026-08-22 02:22:24
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Clutch Nvdo :
Picking her up isn’t that crazy despite all the driving. However, she didn’t even ask for that, she asked for an uber 🚩
2026-08-21 19:49:47
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Linda Jane🦋🦋 :
I don’t know why people are blaming you!! Seriously. It’s a first date. They weren’t in a relationship. He did nothing wrong
2026-08-23 04:19:16
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Arlene Rodriguez :
I mean be in a camp by myself but I agree with you. There’s something sus about a girl who asks for things before the actual date.
2026-08-23 22:45:39
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Manuela Nunes :
Oh so you picked a date spot that’s close to you? Maybe you could have found a cute place close to her and she could have even walked.
2026-08-23 07:38:06
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Manofskill❌ :
I feel you bruh
2026-08-22 19:54:10
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Charmaine Ayache :
pick up someone you never
met before is not safe
2026-08-23 02:07:45
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Joseph Crews :
Valid Point. I did initially say pick her up. But I was not aware of the distance. This definitely changes my thought on the matter. If she was just a few miles away that's completely different because she's actually close by and it's not like you are going out of the way.
2026-08-24 00:43:45
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Dylan :
Curious how would you make this work if yall continued to date? Always meeting up?
2026-08-22 02:09:11
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thegirll.t :
It’s not deep to pick her up 😭I always drive but it’s literally normal for men to pick you up. Most people don’t live 10 minutes from each other
2026-08-22 13:41:13
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Hi :
I love that ur reasoning this
2026-08-22 06:23:25
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daydreaming :
I would rather drive myself safer than an uber
2026-08-24 00:17:30
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