long story short, "I'm going to waste your time" 😂
2026-08-22 05:24:42
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Ms. Allen :
This is exactly what happened to me verbatim. OMG...I am speechless.
2026-08-23 12:50:20
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Xenia :
Unpopular opinion: if anxious attached people wouldn’t suffocate „avoidants“ so much, they wouldn’t need to „run away“
2026-08-23 11:51:25
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sarahdabear :
but also they aren't this self aware because that would require them to be accountable
2026-08-21 22:54:02
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Princeton & Ivy :
Avoidants are created. They're not born that way. They once loved so hard deeply and unconditionally they had their heart shattered. They wanted to die. They barely survived. Yes, time has passed, they thought they healed, they miss connection and want love but as soon as it gets close their brain tells them "THIS IS DANGEROUS! RUN!!" and they do! It's a subconscious defense mechanism that was developed after heartbreak. I don't know if anyone knows how to fix it.
2026-08-22 18:34:27
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Lynne :
You forgot I’m gonna wait two years and then I’m gonna text you and tell you that I messed up and want you back and I’m ready for a relationship. Then two months later I’m gonna tell you I can’t do this. I thought I was ready but I’m not. 🙄
2026-08-23 15:47:35
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Ivy :
Avoidants=Cowards : first red flag…RUN!
2026-08-23 10:12:34
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cherryblossom8189 :
May this NEVER find me
2026-08-22 03:12:18
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† (´☉ ౪ ☉`) †🤍✖️ :
is it possible to genuinely make things work with an avoidant 😭
2026-08-23 12:51:30
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David :
I would send this to the avoidant from my past, but he’d accuse me of suffocating him.
2026-08-22 06:10:03
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mandilynn :
Avoidants are the devil
2026-08-22 06:56:27
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joyinohio :
It boils down to incredible emotional immaturity
2026-08-22 10:26:33
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Andri🌻 :
Avoidant men are… they break you down slowly until you barely recognize yourself anymore. They make you question your worth, your needs, your feelings — until there’s almost nothing left of the person you used to be.
2026-08-22 17:49:52
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juliavlachoulis :
These people are crazy and it’s a contagious type of crazy. Stay away from them.
2026-08-22 18:08:12
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Sheena :
You just pmo 😂
2026-08-23 02:24:14
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tamarahealing444 :
Oh my I went through this nightmare over and over until I finally left. It was awful! To all of you that are this person, please STOP 🛑
2026-08-22 14:40:45
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Andrea 🌙 :
Freaking losers fr 😭😭
2026-08-22 00:01:34
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RunMom :
I will never date again after the avoidant I dated. I'm DONE!
2026-08-22 02:08:56
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Victoria 🪩 :
I use to be an avoidant and this is exactly how it is 😭
2026-08-22 18:21:33
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CRYBBY✨ :
ok so like this is me
2026-08-23 07:30:30
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all_is_grace :
They need to stop dating
2026-08-21 23:48:39
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🝠 ∵ミ :
No one is more manipulative than an avoidant who's texting "sorry I was asleep” after ghosting you for 72 hrs after telling you he loved you.
2026-08-22 07:23:36
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user818945979193 :
Why, in the name of God would anyone bother?
2026-08-22 17:22:05
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