the fact that avoidants have the same tendencies as narcissists and psychopaths
2026-08-21 21:54:14
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Ken Ken :
Dealing with an avoidant is exhausting like, I’m sorry for liking you too much?!?!
2026-08-21 21:15:00
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deekijj :
I’m going to avoid this too but I hear you
2026-08-21 22:01:59
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k ᡕᠵデᡁ᠊ :
someone is deciding whether tonight is safe enough to tell u today they’re hurting
2026-08-21 20:55:31
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Itseffortless :
“Your parents gave you instructions on how to reproduce the abuse.” “You became fluent in the conditions that created you!” 💯💯💯 It’s not your fault, but it’s your job to work on it.
2026-08-22 00:16:39
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Trey Bartholomew :
I wish this video wasn’t so easy to avoid
2026-08-22 00:20:47
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rene :
People with Anxious attachments are much worse
2026-08-21 21:30:32
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H :
Sad thing is, I don’t think avoidants are willing to sit with themselves let alone hear what you’re preaching… they’re exhausting.
2026-08-21 22:55:10
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Solara Aurelia🦋 :
I’m an avoidant woman working on this. I don’t know how to overcome it. It feels like trying to be a human for the first time.
2026-08-21 21:12:09
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Rayne Vargas :
my biggest fear is becoming an avoidant, maybe I've hid too far deep in the "protecting my peace" to keep myself safe from acknowledging what I'm doing.
2026-08-22 00:19:50
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Groove :
u really had me at the beginning...
2026-08-22 00:20:19
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Jon G :
“Eventually they didn’t have to neglect you, you knew how to do it for them” ouch didn’t even hold my hand
2026-08-21 20:20:31
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Marabz :
There's so much video left
2026-08-21 23:02:57
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🫀Finn🦌 :
that's why I choose not to date anybody. they don't have to be forced to "learn me", I don't wanna repeat the cycle. I'd rather be alone than have another person experience that because of me
2026-08-21 23:29:18
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Anebak🇰🇪🇰🇪 :
I needed to hear this
2026-08-22 00:19:44
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🍮 :
I don't really care if my avoidance creates more avoidance in others tbh... Like if I have to live through it and heal then they can too.
2026-08-21 23:05:06
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Don’t sleep with avoidant men :
This is why I tell women Don’t sleep with avoidant men. It’s nothing personal you will not be well with them.💜
2026-08-21 20:49:45
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denise 🪻🦈🍃 :
you just called me out but it somehow comforted me too 😭
2026-08-21 21:19:52
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Kyung Mi :
This made me feel like shit thank you very much
2026-08-21 23:22:55
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nursewillis :
how do you fix it though? with this conditioning it triggers feelings and it feels unnatural to dismiss them
2026-08-21 20:52:59
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ash ♰ :
As someone with avoidant tendencies, thank you. I never want to instil this damage in another person.
2026-08-21 21:01:11
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