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Kathleen :

WHOOP THERE IT IS.

8hecate :

THIS. Now they’re the victim. Crazy.

AutumnStorm :

and unfortunately sometimes everything has to fall out for it to be recognizable and to be worked on..

bpbeap :

yep this is why I'm constantly telling men during the whole debates happening on here is that women aren't tolerating men's behavior anymore. women used to be groomed to sit back and stay quiet and let boys be boys etc etc whatever other horrific cliches there are about tolerating men's behavior. no thanks. not for me

Lu Mo 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ :

just gonna turn up the sound and let it play hoping it helps spread the message 🤷🏼😜

Danielle :

For me there still was not an “until”

theo11159 :

Somehow I’m always the villain in the situation as well

Creativemind :

He told me that I couldn’t say that his actions were why I treated him the way I did(I didn’t want to be intimate with someone who treated me like they didn’t even like me much less love me) but that he only treated me that way because of how I was treating him(not wanting to be intimate with him). I definitely don’t regret the divorce, I do regret it doing it sooner.

Samantha Ortega :

sending this to my mom

Rayanne Garland :

Willllldddddd

jkesler7 :

Or the “Okay I’ll fix that” that’s followed up by taking no action whatsoever to fix the thing you’re telling them is hurting you for months on end, then you eventually say “I can’t do this anymore” and they guilt trip you with “I’m doing all this for us” while I say “it doesn’t FEEL like it’s for us, it FEELS like it’s for you”.

Wildly Guided 1111 :

I wrote him a letter detailing how his actions broke my heart and ruined our marriage due to his mistreatment of me and our kids. His only response: “you broke me”. So.. I broke him.. by writing him a letter detailing how he broke me, our kids and our marriage. That’s when I realized he lived in delululand

Bee :

how do i scream this into the world

Kate 🥰 :

Can’t repost but know I was here

chrizzty :

I really want to repost this……

LokisRaven :

literally just went thru this with a male friend. he did something f-ed up, I called him on it, he was like, "I'm just a cold, oblivious guy sometimes, deal with it." I said "Ok," and then stopped talking to him. A week later, he suddenly understands what he did and genuinely regrets his actions.

Mara :

The second I started giving my ex the same energy, I was a horrible person, I'm so heartless, I never loved him lmao You know what actually, I don't think I did, now that you mention it 💁‍♀️

kaylababes22 :

And funny how I didn’t even treat them badly. I just limited access to myself and my kids. And suddenly I’m the bad guy

shay :

you need a podcast

Soph :

& then im the problem

hairmakeupbydulcesito :

Ima write this down to it stick in my brain

Kae :

saving this for an argument later babes, thx so much 🥰

morgamillion :