Amy Lombardi, LPC, MEd
Region: US
Friday 21 August 2026 22:57:57 GMT
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Memes9x :
We were married 30+ years when he cheated… 10 years ago, I still worry and think about it everyday!! I CAN NOT GET OVER that he CHOSE to betray me and kept choosing someone else every time he did it!!
2026-09-06 19:21:36
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Uglylegend7 :
Just not easy because even though they hurt you it makes it hard for you to leave
2026-09-08 09:14:39
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Margaux 🍓 :
I’ve been ruminating for 5 months and barely leave the house. Therapy twice a week and you’re the first person to tell me that what I’m dealing with is real.
2026-09-06 08:47:00
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cksmith3698 :
12 years and I’m still broken 😞
2026-09-09 11:34:07
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Olive Juice 5280🫒✨ :
Yessss! In therapy, starting EMDR SOON! Betrayal trauma is insane! The loop Is crazy! I hate it! 😵💫🫨😩❤️🩹
2026-08-22 02:18:00
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Skoob :
it's turned me into an alcoholic
2026-09-08 08:15:45
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tiona_rodriguez :
11 and a half years out and still broken
2026-09-09 01:42:21
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Amiedelll :
December 6th, our anniversary, he slept with her. I hate him
2026-09-11 14:11:12
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Jeff.is.my.name :
And once again it’s the betrayed partner who has to pay for what the betrayer did. There aren’t any consequences for the betrayer, and that needs to change! I’ve spent tens of thousands of $$$ dollars, in addition to the psychological trauma. I still have a difficult time freely trusting people.
2026-09-07 10:47:22
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PapaCorn :
I love this, BUT i shouldn’t have to pay for it. The betrayer should. Pay for the service. Pay for the time. Pay for the travel. Sadly, even if she did, it would not make me whole again.
2026-09-09 11:02:58
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Mikey :
Question: even with therapy and management, including improvement in these symptoms, this really is a lifelong experience. In other words, you learn how to manage it but those triggers can happen 10,20 or even 30 years later.
2026-08-25 15:57:40
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Jessica 💙 :
He absolutely risked my life & knew it. I don't think insurance will pay & I'll have to deal with this for the rest of my life
2026-09-08 08:11:38
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Vanessa :
How do I get involved in this program
2026-09-21 23:14:29
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yogahair&winelover :
The therapist (marriage counselor) told me that my trauma was my problem and that I had to let it go. Boy, did that validate his cheating for him.
2026-09-16 12:24:52
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T-bone :
100% it never stops
2026-09-10 18:16:22
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eri1325189 :
Do you any good ones in phoenix Arizona
2026-10-06 08:17:53
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tommy :
40 years of living with this and you’re 100 % correct
2026-08-22 08:36:15
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Taquito0430 :
MY LIFE RIGHT NOW.
2026-10-14 20:24:24
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Christina :
and people want us to "get over it". cool.
2026-09-07 21:51:58
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Living life to the fullest :
The triggers are real, even a year later of finding out the unthinkable, I get not only PTSD I already had from a really bad injury, but now I got CPTSD, triggers are the hardest thing to get through. 😭 Choosing myself was the best decision I made! ❤️Everything you said here is spot on true, all the feelings. Following you now
2026-09-07 08:04:35
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Jacob Green :
Its hard to get to the mindset of believing Im good enough.
2026-09-04 15:11:05
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kath :
Yes!! All this is so true!!!
2026-09-05 10:31:46
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The Joker :
im wrong for feeling the way i do...
2026-09-09 07:41:25
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2chinapearls :
Thankyou, I’m working each day to heal myself.
2026-09-11 02:19:46
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BillyLong2341 :
This hit me hard. I def do not want to kill myself, but I cannot get over the betrayal even though it’s been over 10 years and we are now divorced. It festers and resurfaces. Certain places particularly trigger it. The inability to trust anyone else is the biggest aspect for me. But I don’t think there’s anything that will fix this. It’s a pretty hopeless feeling.
2026-10-09 20:01:12
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