@shaleeavenney: You have a passcode on your phone. Locks on your doors. Passwords protecting your money. You understand that not everyone deserves access. So why do we sometimes forget that when it comes to ourselves? This isn't about shame, purity, or judging anyone's choices. It's about remembering: Wanting access to you doesn't mean someone deserves it. Attraction isn't trust. Chemistry isn't safety. And just because someone wants you... doesn't mean they know you well enough to have access to you. #shaleeavenney #relationships #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #boundaries