I’m sorry you went through that. I resonate with the first half of your video and agree with you. But the second half doesn’t seem to make sense to me in this context. Patrick was incredibly supportive of Lindsay. Took extended paternity leave for her and then worked from home. Hired a nanny. Always checked on her. If he did anything more people would call him controlling. Lindsay had so much help from Patrick and from parents on both sides. Also money for medication and for psych appts. But she consistently lied about symptoms and went to multiple doctors and didn’t dislocate the meds she was already taking to them. She failed herself and her kids.
2026-08-22 06:51:46
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Summertime :
The fact that you want your children to be protected from anyone who would hurt them, even yourself, proves that you broke the cycle. You are a fantastic mom. None of us are perfect, but you get up, show up, and improve yourself every day, and that is all any kid could ever need.
2026-08-22 06:17:45
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Allison :
Thank you for making this video. I was a SAHM. I was a shell of myself by the time it ended. Me and my kids went through extreme Narcissistic abuse and no one knew it. He was charismatic, everyone thought he was great. I thought I was losing my mind. Everything is not always what it seems.
2026-08-23 15:56:54
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JJ61978 :
So proud of you for being strong enough to survive that, break the cycle, and being able to discuss it 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
2026-08-22 06:27:19
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wanderlust222 :
THANK GOD we dont understand. that's why this is such a big deal! bc it happens. we didn't experience it. but it HAPPENS.
2026-08-22 15:50:03
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Jess :
Your an extremely smart, beautiful, and I’m so sorry for your past but I will tell you that your voice in the world is so needed and much appreciated everyday 🥰
2026-08-22 20:55:17
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Jwo :
This is heartbreaking. I can't understand how a mother could be capable of such cruelty - but I agree, postpartum depression is really scary.
2026-08-24 04:45:09
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annakay703 :
i wish the world was kinder to women 💔 i wish for this almost every day
2026-08-22 17:23:08
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Cathy H :
I feel this deeply 😭 spot on! “1000 cuts”
2026-08-22 13:40:02
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Sonja Bosilka :
Thank you for sharing. I think all women who understand and have been through some things have thought exactly like you (I know I have) and it’s the reason I stand with Lindsay
2026-08-22 11:55:07
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M✨E✨L✨I✨S✨S✨A :
My heart goes out to you and all you have had to endure. Hug younger you and remind her, you got out. You broke the cycle. You are strong. You are loved. 🩷🫶🏻
2026-08-22 13:46:59
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/G\ Brother Fluff 🇪🇺 :
This highlights how much we're still stuck in the 80s too. Thank you for sharing Ally 🖤
2026-08-22 12:57:55
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NowYouFeelGoodSheila :
THANK YOU SO MUCH ALLY for making this about PPD and not about some wack job conspiracy
2026-08-22 21:59:44
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Jessica :
ohhh Ali, I'm sending you a big hug 🫂 so much strength to speak about this. you broke the cycle hun, thats amazing 💕
2026-08-22 06:21:55
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Rae Shelley :
You were going to protect your children from you, if needed?
That means you were a good mom.
Also, I raised my children to work and make thier own money. never let someone take that away. Because freedom is knowing you can get yourself out of a situation when needed.
so when, I have been in bad relationships, I have been able to get out...if needed.
2026-08-22 14:15:55
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Dani Bear 🐾 TTLG :
Thank you so much, it's really important that we speak about these things xx
2026-08-22 06:12:30
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Heavenlea :
The fact you recognised and verbalised the signs to your EMH to act, speaks volumes about you as a person. We can see how this hits you hard. The more of you I see, the more I love you. ❤️
2026-08-25 23:19:31
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Nightnurse :
It is SUCH an important topic
2026-08-23 15:04:47
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Hayley-Louise :
probably why I relate to you so bloody much
2026-08-25 07:37:43
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Kelly Marie |Soft Western Glam :
you're the one breaking the cycle and see the abuse as wrong.
2026-08-22 16:33:22
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lucylux03 :
Sending you so much love ❤️🩹
2026-08-22 06:05:14
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Britt.PUPS :
Breaking generational curses within families is our superpower!!! We PROTECT our babies and others babies!!! 💪🏼👊🏼💪🏼👊🏼 even if it’s from ourselves. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
2026-08-22 17:06:04
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Just Mandee! :
Well this made me cry and that’s all I’ll say
2026-08-25 02:05:00
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GardenGirlieDani :
Babe I’m so sorry you felt this way - I know it too intimately to say anything else. I’m just sorry
2026-08-22 13:58:26
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Rumble In The Kitchen :
Women are held to a much different standard than men, especially when it comes to raising children! This world judges women so hard! And the system is 💯 set up to keep women in bad situations.
It's not hard to see that you've survived so much & that you also made sure to break the cycle. Take care of you too!
2026-08-23 00:02:40
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