@jahidjr10.7: #neymarjr #bladeontop

💫 IT'S JAHID🔥
💫 IT'S JAHID🔥
Open In TikTok:
Region: BD
Saturday 22 August 2026 07:05:05 GMT
276
5
0
1

Music

Download

Comments

There are no more comments for this video.
To see more videos from user @jahidjr10.7, please go to the Tikwm homepage.

Other Videos

🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾 Yes... the recycled arguments can't stand against the statistics. The patience was real though.  A ⚪️ woman used the same tired talking points about the ⚫️ community: bonnets, “attitude,” absent fathers, personal responsibility aka laziness, and “stop blaming slavery.”🙄🤮 And once again, a ⚫️ woman had to sit there calmly, carefully, and strategically dismantle a stereotype without being labeled angry or aggressive for telling the truth. But Banke Awopetu knew the assignment! Not only did she respond gracefully with a patience (I am working on developing 😅), but she showed the performance ⚫️ women are forced into every single day, especially in professional spaces. She literally had to regulate her tone in real time, and ANNOUNCED IT! She said the quiet thing outloud! We need more of dat!  👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Because if she had showed just a little bit of emotion, the conversation would stop being about the facts and start being about her “attitude.” The trap I am sure all of us have fallen into because as a culture we are Authentic and express ourselves and our emotions openly. Passive Aggression, manipulation tactics... that's not typically our bag or way we desire to do things. (Which is often why many of us find ourselves struggling in ⚪️ Workspaces.) ⚫️ people are expected to absorb disrespect, stay polished, speak softly, educate people who insult us, and somehow make everyone else comfortable while defending our own humanity... And then people wonder why we are tired 🤯🤦🏾‍♀️. The conversation was never really about school drop-offs or bonnets. It was about  how easily people use a few judgemental observations to indict an entire community, while ignoring the larger systems shaping outcomes. It is convenient to talk about what a mother wore to school drop-off, a child who is late, or a home that doesn't have a Father. It is much harder to talk about poverty, job instability, school funding, childcare gaps, police brutality and targetting, transportation issues, workplace discrimination, medical racism, housing segregation, and the economic pressure placed on ⚫️ people every single day. And while they keep spouting these outdated stereotypes, ⚫️ women are still among the most educated groups in this country, still dying at alarming high rates due to pregnancy-related causes, still carrying families, still overrepresented in care work and public-facing labor, still expected to be the backbone of institutions, and still being pushed out of workplaces at alarming rates. And the issue is that somehow ⚫️ women are constantly made responsible for everything! Responsible for the marriage, the household, the children, the education,  the emotional tone, for proving we are competent (and still doubted) before we are even treated as human. And when we name the system, suddenly we are “blaming.” But when they stereotype us, it is “just an observation
🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾 Yes... the recycled arguments can't stand against the statistics. The patience was real though. A ⚪️ woman used the same tired talking points about the ⚫️ community: bonnets, “attitude,” absent fathers, personal responsibility aka laziness, and “stop blaming slavery.”🙄🤮 And once again, a ⚫️ woman had to sit there calmly, carefully, and strategically dismantle a stereotype without being labeled angry or aggressive for telling the truth. But Banke Awopetu knew the assignment! Not only did she respond gracefully with a patience (I am working on developing 😅), but she showed the performance ⚫️ women are forced into every single day, especially in professional spaces. She literally had to regulate her tone in real time, and ANNOUNCED IT! She said the quiet thing outloud! We need more of dat! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Because if she had showed just a little bit of emotion, the conversation would stop being about the facts and start being about her “attitude.” The trap I am sure all of us have fallen into because as a culture we are Authentic and express ourselves and our emotions openly. Passive Aggression, manipulation tactics... that's not typically our bag or way we desire to do things. (Which is often why many of us find ourselves struggling in ⚪️ Workspaces.) ⚫️ people are expected to absorb disrespect, stay polished, speak softly, educate people who insult us, and somehow make everyone else comfortable while defending our own humanity... And then people wonder why we are tired 🤯🤦🏾‍♀️. The conversation was never really about school drop-offs or bonnets. It was about how easily people use a few judgemental observations to indict an entire community, while ignoring the larger systems shaping outcomes. It is convenient to talk about what a mother wore to school drop-off, a child who is late, or a home that doesn't have a Father. It is much harder to talk about poverty, job instability, school funding, childcare gaps, police brutality and targetting, transportation issues, workplace discrimination, medical racism, housing segregation, and the economic pressure placed on ⚫️ people every single day. And while they keep spouting these outdated stereotypes, ⚫️ women are still among the most educated groups in this country, still dying at alarming high rates due to pregnancy-related causes, still carrying families, still overrepresented in care work and public-facing labor, still expected to be the backbone of institutions, and still being pushed out of workplaces at alarming rates. And the issue is that somehow ⚫️ women are constantly made responsible for everything! Responsible for the marriage, the household, the children, the education, the emotional tone, for proving we are competent (and still doubted) before we are even treated as human. And when we name the system, suddenly we are “blaming.” But when they stereotype us, it is “just an observation"... More like Selective Scrutiny. #misogynoir #school #BlackTikTok #truthtelling #theblackempath

About