@coach.ryan0: Avoidance looks like freedom… until the distractions stop working, the validation dries up, and they realize they discarded the people who genuinely loved them. You can run from intimacy for decades, but eventually the bill comes due. 🚨 #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #MidlifeCrisis #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalUnavailability

Coach Ryan
Coach Ryan
Open In TikTok:
Region: US
Saturday 22 August 2026 12:10:18 GMT
26025
1021
44
102

Music

Download

Comments

pirate07sam
Pirate07Sam :
Sadly, my avoidant already has issues with his intimacy. It no longer performs he’s only 51 with severe alcoholism, sleep apnea, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and lastly vapes a lot of issues.
2026-08-22 13:09:00
31
pastrichefb2
pastrichefb2 :
I wish she could’ve saw herself through my eyes. I thought she was an amazing person. Lots of great qualities unfortunately she didn’t love herself. I pray every night she finds peace and knows she’s deserving and worthy of love. ❤️❤️❤️
2026-08-23 07:04:02
0
vikinggirlwanders1
Evapeva 🆘🇺🇸🇳🇴 :
What happens after the midlife crisis?
2026-08-22 15:17:31
11
lindaaaaaaa68
Sunshine :
My avoidant is 60! I hope I never meet another one
2026-08-22 14:44:51
22
claireyfairy82
Bustcard Barbie 🍉 :
I fear that I'm becoming more avoidant after dealing with so many damaging people, I was very anxiously attached
2026-08-23 10:36:02
1
gandothers
G world :
Do you ever get depressed for men when you make these videos? I know some women can be avoidants but I’d argue most are men and this stems from boys being raised to “never cry”, be a “strong athlete”, and perform through athletics to impress their fathers specifically. It’s just makes me so sad 😔
2026-08-22 20:01:36
8
girl_on_couch_
Natalie ❤️ :
Omg they just get worse?! 😳
2026-08-22 19:57:12
11
paradoxfox0
Paradoxfox :
They become that parent to their partner
2026-08-22 19:53:57
3
angeplatch
Ange :
I find the link between illness as they age and their avoidance very interesting - stuffing all that down for years takes a toll on the body !
2026-08-22 23:23:15
7
angels27272
Angels27272 :
He’s now 70 and still running. Let him.
2026-08-22 17:03:11
11
anne65510
Anne :
Your info is so well presented and true, thank you
2026-08-23 01:15:50
3
madaiolvera31
madaiolvera31 :
the worst!
2026-08-22 17:03:54
2
wishingwillow06
WishingWillow :
Do they know this about themselves? 😩 Do they know that they push people away?
2026-08-23 01:42:20
2
lions1313
Caty :
Yup. You just described my ex-husband. He was able to hide it more or less for 15 years. Things were good.. Then his estranged father died, his business and health failed and he broke down. I waited 5 years for him to wake up... He didn't. Letting them go if they aren't willing to get help is the only option.
2026-08-22 14:28:46
4
journalwithme1021
Jot & Dot :
Yup I’m ignored and he has so much time for his online buddies his mom and his website
2026-08-22 18:58:45
4
marywalker251
Mary Walker189 :
Why are they so rude
2026-08-22 18:24:29
3
evolvingmess
FNF.Keke :
my avoidant is 46 and going through it but he's actually opened up and we've been talking through the childhood wounds and all that, he wants to change. I'm shocked but I was gonna leave.
2026-08-22 20:39:09
5
ladydavis83
BrandiA1Taurus♉️ :
my husband
2026-08-22 18:05:04
2
mitchleo
Mitchleo💯 :
Sports car, affair then divorce - he had the perfect trifecta! Heavy drinker too.
2026-08-22 23:38:04
1
cynthialy1
CynthiaLy1 :
And his ex wife and daughter continued that patterned on from his mother. And yes he just bought a sports car 2 weeks ago 😂😂😂
2026-08-22 13:15:51
1
secondwing
Zweiter Flügel :
😶 21 years 😭
2026-08-22 12:27:47
2
ash.albi
Ash :
Is 37 too young for a midlife crisis?
2026-08-23 02:38:21
0
beebabe40
Beebabe :
mine lost his job. didnt show any interest in working again.he is in his 50s
2026-08-23 06:44:12
0
fashionologie8
Fashionologie8 :
My 61 y/o ex is an alcoholic who suddenly discarded me after four years. One week after we booked a trip. I guess he think he can find someone better and younger than me.
2026-08-22 16:33:38
0
1111freespirit
1111Kirsten🇨🇦 :
Pretty sad existence
2026-08-22 13:19:13
3
To see more videos from user @coach.ryan0, please go to the Tikwm homepage.

Other Videos


About