@learntolove60: In the past, whenever I wasn't in the mood, my husband would try to charm me, cuddle up, or gently persuade me to change my mind. It made me feel wanted, desired, and pursued. ​Lately, things have completely shifted. The second I say I'm tired or not feeling it, he immediately says "okay," turns his back to me, and falls fast asleep within seconds. No cuddling, no talking, no affection—just instant silence. ​Logically, I know he is respecting my boundary, which is a good thing. But emotionally, it feels like a sudden wall went up. It feels like he’s either checked out, holding resentment, or simply doesn't care enough to pursue me anymore. ​I’m left lying awake in the dark wondering if he’s just being respectful, or if the intimacy in our marriage is slowly dying. ​Am I being unreasonable for feeling rejected when he accepts my "no" so easily, or is this a sign that something deeper is wrong between us? How would you interpret this? ​#marriageproblems ​#relationshipadvice ​#intimacyissues ​#storytime ​#whatwouldyoudo

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rodwatkins9501
Rod Watkins 🇨🇦 :
It means that you have won, he is no longer interested. I stopped asking my wife, she made it seem like a once a month chore, took her 3 months to realize i hadn't asked. Then she wanted it, told her she had won and I wasn't interested, left 3 months later
2026-08-22 14:35:35
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afroequa
Karlita💗 :
he's tired of begging
2026-08-22 13:25:19
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kexhtnohe :
You're getting exactly what you want. You rejected him and he's done chasing. Stop the games if it's affection you want.
2026-08-22 16:53:37
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brad.delp
Brad Delp :
He probably got tired of the constant rejections and is slowly moving on from the relationship
2026-08-22 13:28:12
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user2042404440030
🔥💣🔥 :
Means you’ve gone too far with the rejection and manipulation. Time for you to make HIM feel wanted
2026-08-22 15:21:53
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kingsley_kw
Kingsley :
Put it the other way around. everytime u ask him for anything and he jz say NO. will u continue asking and try coaxing him till he says yes? Not necessarily just in bed. Jz human nature.
2026-08-22 14:03:25
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towers287
Towers 🔺 :
If you overdo it with NO, he will find a substitute...
2026-08-22 19:29:38
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nickhiscox
Nick Hiscox :
he is sick and tired of begging for it. so his interest is going away
2026-08-22 16:10:00
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chrisrushant
Chris Rushant :
Means he’s given up trying. He’s accepted you no longer want him. He’s committed to his family and will not leave. He’s probably really upset and has no way of talking about it without it being turned on him being the issue.
2026-08-22 16:37:42
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pixel_nomad__
pixel_nomad :
All i can say is trust your gut sis!! If you feel eve at the slightest that something is off or changed. You better watch your back!! There’s probably something or someone else. Sorry to break it to you but I was in your position before
2026-08-22 14:18:19
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ink_addicted
ink addicted :
it means you broke something inside of him and he knows trying more than once will only bring him more rejection and he doesn't want to feel that way anymore...
2026-08-22 18:26:58
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wire8408
Wire :
It means you got what you wanted. He is going to leave soon, he has already made up his mind
2026-08-22 16:09:57
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eittel123
somebody :
no place for luke warm
2026-08-22 17:41:38
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dean.grant6
Dean Grant :
You win. He’s given up
2026-08-22 16:33:41
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michaelmyers515
Michael Myers :
I hope he leaves
2026-08-22 14:46:53
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kdrobinson17
KDRobinson17 :
It means after such a long time trying to be intimate with you and getting no, he choose to stop pursuing you. He realized staying silent was easier than be constantly rejected. That rejection affected him so much, he chose silence over that hurt you were causing. He has accepted his place in your life as someone to pay the bills and provide for, but not someone you want to be intimate with anymore. I know this because I am there too.
2026-08-22 19:08:21
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agent69315
agent69 :
did you ever consider just saying yes?
2026-08-22 14:07:40
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humna.rajpoot3
humna rajpoot :
Doesn’t no mean no? Why would you say no if you don’t mean it?
2026-08-22 17:20:55
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justfinereally88
Justfinereally88 :
It means he has found respect for you. Now you can find the feeling yourself and instigate yourself. Enjoy your new found flow
2026-08-22 16:04:33
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ee16161616
E :
Is this a joke?
2026-08-22 19:26:04
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amazing_stu
Stuart :
im too scared to initiate anymore, incase it comes across as begging. I dont want sympathy sex.
2026-08-22 19:07:10
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luckymthethwa339
Lucky Mthethwa :
The world is cold out there my sista,u have wronged him so bad ,mend things quickly ,otherwise starting afresh its hard
2026-08-22 19:42:32
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mindhunter59
Mind hunter :
Divorce
2026-08-22 17:20:37
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miggi615
Miggi :
“ Its never that serious “ He understands you. Theres more to love than just s*x.
2026-08-22 19:30:52
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john.be.good
John be good :
No means No , make up your mind , which is it ?
2026-08-22 19:31:00
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