I dont want him to feel shitty, I do want him to be happy, I just wanted it to be with me. I wasnt able to have the chance to fix anything when it was brought up... at the breakup. like why didnt you say i was hurting your feelings and it wasnt on purpose 😭
2026-08-23 18:01:54
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Human on Earth :
I want them.to change but they will not.
2026-08-24 05:41:11
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Thought Stimulator :
Do you have a video on change that you can link in the comments? Because you called out the ineffective behavior, but you didn't spell out the better behavior. 😭
2026-08-23 09:51:51
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Spamantha :
I wanted him to change at first
now I want him to suffer
2026-08-24 14:40:22
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Nyantaro :
I want him to change. That’s all I wanted. But if he refuses to see that he was abusive and caused the pain… sometimes suffering is the next best thing.
2026-08-22 23:14:35
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kelly :
🤣🤣🤣🤣 pick one you can't have both
2026-08-23 06:18:25
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Michelle :
maybe I want the other person to feel bad about making me feel bad authentically. cause I feel bad when I make someone else feel bad. ya know?
2026-08-22 23:37:43
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Bobbi Lane895 :
I just wanted karma. I got it. I’m good now.
2026-08-23 00:41:45
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CassieIsUnbothered :
oh I want him to suffer at this point lol
2026-08-22 17:13:06
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Kaytee🐈⬛🔪🇺🇸✨️ :
im choosing suffering every time. im a terrible person 💀😂
2026-08-22 13:58:31
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DoorDashMum :
GET OUT OF MY HEAD JEFF!!
2026-08-22 14:38:38
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Pizzette :
If you want someone to change you dont love them as they are.
2026-08-22 19:14:43
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ashlee🇨🇦 :
suffer
2026-08-22 15:09:03
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Shelby Kaye :
Hold up, if people are dealing with narcissists please don’t take this as you’ve been doing the relationship talk wrong 😅
2026-08-22 14:58:09
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And_So_It_Is :
Change for you, not for me. Actual meaningful change is when people change for themselves. If you’re changing for me, I might not be here when you make that change 🤷🏽♀️
2026-08-22 14:45:21
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Hannah :
This makes so much sense. How do I get over wanting to make them suffer though?
2026-08-23 10:28:33
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ChameleonRin :
I've tried the this is what's going wrong in our relationship and I'd like us to work on it thing and nothing changed so now that we aren't together I hope he gets to feel how I did. so I tried to help the change. Now, his suffering is alright with me.
2026-08-22 15:18:59
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Zed :
well if I HAVE to choose... suffer 😏
2026-08-22 15:11:08
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Célia Sa :
IM very human then
2026-08-22 13:48:21
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📿 The Penitent One 🗡️ :
you're the best
2026-08-22 13:56:34
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Stats’s eBay’s :
I wish my mom could hear this.
2026-08-22 13:52:00
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qerberis :
I agree but if they’re not going to change, what else is there?
2026-08-22 14:15:29
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Rebecka Højbjerg :
He went back to his ex. The same person he has broken his heart like 8 times in the past. I WHOLEHEARTEDLY HOPE SHE BREAKS HIS HEART LIKE HE BROKE MINE. his karma will come
2026-08-23 09:55:13
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Martha Stewart :
I’m single and ready for a serious relationship with a real man
2026-08-23 08:50:48
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