I tell people when I do something for them, I hope they don’t think I’m throwing it in their face. I just want them to notice.
2026-08-24 05:28:31
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K 𐙚 :
My whole family 😭
2026-08-24 15:26:00
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🕷 :
I couldn’t afford a gift for my girlfriend for her birthday so my friend secretly gave me 20 bucks so I wouldn’t be embarrassed . She promised me I didn’t have to pay her back and we got into an argument and she said “remember when I paid for ur gfs birthday present” in front of my whole lunch table
2026-08-24 10:26:26
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Me myself and I :
on the other pov it's like I just helped you just for you to ignore me or disrespect me so either side is understandable with context
2026-08-24 06:37:08
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Dirty draws😋 :
Real I hate when they buy me something or get like a gift then I hear about it a week later
2026-08-24 14:00:55
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génesis :
This and when they gift you something expecting you to give back
2026-08-23 21:03:15
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j. :
my bsf said that I didnt said anything and In an argument we had for smt stupid honesty she said "you did nothing for me I only did"
okay well its been a month and I havent picked up any of her calls
2026-08-23 09:09:27
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T :
My friends and family be doing this
2026-08-24 15:11:02
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zlxor :
Accepting someone's love, effort, and money while giving zero energy back, only to say 'I didn't ask for this' when they express hurt, isn't setting a boundary—it's deflecting accountability for using them
2026-08-24 09:42:13
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suleydi☥ :
Bcs I promise I did way more than you did and I’ll never throw it in your face
2026-08-23 19:13:40
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𝐻𝑒𝓎𝓁𝑒𝑒 :
my mom always does this
2026-08-24 14:30:22
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Jvadu :
Lowk i think it depends on how big the thing is that the person did for someone.. if it’s something like giving you money helping you get better in the gym helping you get a new house or helping you get away from an abusive relationship.. but if they’re only using those things against you to make you feel like you’re in a position where they can control you and do whatever to you then yes thats weird. But unless they do stuff for you kindly and you refuse to do stuff for them completely then thats also weird
2026-08-24 01:23:24
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🥀🍒 EMILY🍒🥀 :
is this normal or not I'm confused 🤔😊
2026-08-24 05:46:17
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🍒imee :
I hate when my parents spend money on me or do anything for me even when I beg them to stop bc I know that they’ll use it against me in an argument and if I say “I told you not to” they’ll yell over me or not listen
2026-08-23 14:05:12
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Lailaa 🖤 :
This why I hate asking for shi, even my family. If ur intention is to rub it in my face later how I had to be dependent on you then it wasn’t a nice act at all
2026-08-24 09:29:27
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E🇨🇲💋 :
That one friend bro
2026-08-23 20:28:27
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Maria :
Distance > confrontation in this case. If someone is constantly ungreatful for the things I do they will notice the abscence whenever I‘ve moved on
2026-08-23 17:10:15
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Jade ⛧ :
Frl like they’re js using it against me
2026-08-23 12:43:23
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luisa :
Fr why would they only do something nice to use it against you later on…people should give things because they genuinely want to, not because they expect something back
2026-08-23 15:19:24
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Grace💎 :
Hate when they say oh I'm getting food so you get this like stop acting like a mother… I dropped her cause I realised how badly she was treating me as a best friend
2026-08-23 13:02:06
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emil :
ofcourse i never again do something. bc if it not you? how they get that information and can using against me?
2026-08-23 06:31:45
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Unseriousbeing :
Real (mom)
2026-08-24 10:09:34
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:
This is also manipulation
2026-08-24 11:49:23
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