@loudly.leo: We are all here to take up space, be seen, and cherished! Don’t let anyone ever make you think otherwise! #relationships #dating #breakup #separation #healing
The word I always came back to was invisibility. I felt soooo invisible. He gladly took all the effort and attention I poured into him, but if I just stopped, he went about his life as if he was alone. So that made me try harder, explain more, and feel worse. Now I’m with someone who has shown me what it’s like to be IN IT together. It is glorious and it makes me realize that THIS is what I needed in a marriage all along. It’s actually overwhelmingly lovely.
2026-08-22 17:01:52
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Mewowdy_ :
My ex too! I literally gave him a website to choose a question to ask, and he still didn’t! I can’t believe I stayed for 3 years!💔 He didn’t even like me!
2026-08-22 18:23:11
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crippledcrashout :
Not really
2026-08-23 02:57:55
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ChikfromPerth :
oh boy that hits hard.
2026-08-23 11:15:28
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berlinflyingcircus :
It’s possible you were also being punished for getting or asking for attention, even subtly, in the relationship. I know I am.
2026-08-25 13:22:36
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Sof :
same happened to me
2026-08-22 18:12:53
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leesa.la :
Insightful and important! Great lesson. Perfect question.
2026-08-26 23:10:19
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wams whims :
Thank you for sharing, you’ve helped me so much this year! 💗✨
2026-08-22 17:29:55
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