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Madebybul :
I'm the only one to think that the husband is an A ? I would be verry angry if my parter did hide something like that. If your husband hide the fact that a woman in his Friend group have feelings for him, that meens je knows it's not Ok.
2026-08-23 06:56:51
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🌷Veronica the RV Lady :
NTA she wants her man
2026-08-23 12:24:14
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user1309994897161 :
NTA my husband would’ve dropped that friend immediately. Th fact that ops didn’t is a huge issue. Here is the follow up question. Is Kayla still trying to flirt with op husband or has she moved on. If not then cut her out the B is just waiting for the right time to swoop in.
2026-08-24 00:31:30
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andi456789103 :
I’d be starting divorce proceedings, he kept it from you, invalidated your feelings, dismissed the conversation for a week and ultimately picked her over you even though he saw it hurt you. I’d be getting divorce and congratulating that woman in a bet well won!
2026-08-23 08:24:04
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hootoflaughter :
in fairness you shouldn't even have to ask. in my 20s very long time ago 🤣 and was dating my now ex husband. one of his female friends was awful to me and behind my back. he cut her off, I never even asked.
2026-08-24 07:57:09
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Aloysius Tabernacle :
I would rub our happiness and loving marriage as much as possible. Keep inviting her. Make her even more jealous
2026-08-23 00:32:07
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Alex :
Nta. Kayla is ta and the reason if the whole friend group changes.
2026-08-22 18:53:48
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corrinnemarie1 :
Nta. He’s still got his friends and if their dynamic changes, that’s life - you put your wife first
2026-08-23 10:28:29
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kg :
Kayla does not want what’s good for you or your marriage. She needs to be removed from your circle. She sounds like TA
2026-08-24 12:33:59
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FeralGhost :
You're setting a boundary and he needs to respect that boundary. You're family now, so choosing you and taking your side comes above friends and outside family members. You're the chosen family, he needs to keep choosing you.
2026-08-23 13:52:53
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Tim🏴 :
the first 10 seconds into it, as soon as she said her husband thinks she's over reacting, I thought, divorce him now!!
2026-08-26 22:44:44
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gelischn :
NTA he needs to Block her now !
2026-08-23 07:47:22
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Rwyn :
NTA, but my empathy in this case would kick in, though not instantly. I wouldn't be mad at hubby. Honestly, it is hard to dislike and punish someone because they see how great you are and like you. He didn't date her, he just never punished her for liking him. Kayle can't help liking him, and her friends just ousted her. Your in, and she's on the way out. I wouldn't invite her over, but I wouldn't alienate her either. Let her destroy the friendships she built. It's already showing signs of cracking. It is a test of grace moment.
2026-08-23 03:06:10
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Stuart Palmer643 :
everyone that gets married subsequently hangs out less with their mates
2026-08-24 13:50:55
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planb :
wife come first every time I'm my opinion
2026-08-31 10:14:44
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Andrea 🇨🇦 ❌ :
Omg… u mean when he was SINGLE, he spent more time with his friends… then now, when he’s in a relationship.. he spends LESS time with them?! So weird 🙄🙄🙄
2026-08-29 13:10:45
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AngieDHulley :
NTA she will deliberately try to drive a wedge between op and her husband
2026-08-25 15:46:01
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𝒻𝓇𝒶𝓃𝒸𝑒𝓈𝒸𝒶 :
You shouldn’t even have to ask to
2026-08-23 12:16:19
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sirlollipopman2 :
Nope. She gotta go
2026-08-22 22:47:22
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Andrea 🇨🇦 ❌ :
Clearly what she said 3yrs ago was still very real bc it just came back up again
2026-08-29 13:23:58
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Cats&Friends :
First of all, teasing to annoy goes up to a certain age. It is important for him to realize that she is out to get him but on the other hand you don’t need to make him block her or whatever. The worst thing for her is seeing you happy and in love . If she hasn’t realized that nothing is going to happen between them she’s only hurting herself. This woman wouldn’t be his choice even if he ever thought to cheat or something or else something would have happened between them already.
2026-08-24 21:28:58
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Lina :
My fiance didn't tell anyone that he was gonna propose to me becuse he wanted it to be a seacret. And im happy he didn't tell anyone, that we got to tell peapol togheter! 🤗❤️
2026-09-03 08:43:40
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Johannes1349 :
As others said, it shouldn't even be a discussion to minimize contact with her or not. I am however a fan of letting people know exactly what they have done to warrant decisions like not wanting to have them around anymore, so I'd want to tell them directly. People can't grow or change their ways if not made aware of their shortcomings.
2026-08-24 15:23:43
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laritonoli :
NEVER leave your friends for a relationship
2026-09-02 17:33:05
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MaliceAlice :
NTA. Harsh? It's putting boundaries and the fact that the husband doesn't minimize contact is basically still leaving it open for options for Kayla somehow. Seems Kayla is like that type. Saying disrespectful things about his wife, betting even, ... Words last a lifetime sometimes. Three years ago, it doesn't matter! It stays. And how Kayla KEEPS ACTING like THAT. The husband is lowkey the AH
2026-08-25 10:15:48
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