@nicolemichelleofficial: If your enmeshed family uses gossip as a form of closeness, you know how toxic the gossip train can get. #enmeshment #enmeshed #enmeshedfamily
I stopped telling my family when I had job interviews and I finally got a job 😅😅
2026-08-23 14:49:54
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Millennial.Nerd.Lady :
a therapist literally had to tell me this it's not wrong to give secrets from your parents. when you're an adult you are entitled to privacy
2026-08-22 22:25:21
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Caroline :
“You never tell me anything anymore” 😂
2026-08-23 19:17:31
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Jaylin_Jalesha| Travel & UGC :
I’m so “secretive” because I didn’t tell my mom all the things I was thinking but I knew that it would be use against me.
2026-08-23 15:24:27
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Kylee 🌟🎬 :
My MIL only talks about what she and others are doing, telling family gossip, telling her friends stuff I’ve said/done/don’t do. Never even asks questions about me. We moved 3,000 miles away and now she gets zero information to tell. It’s amazing 😂
2026-08-22 22:20:42
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jennygee014 :
My husband tells a lot of our business I can’t stand it
2026-08-23 16:50:43
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Ayanna 🌙🍄 :
My mother would talk shit about my aunt and then she’d get in the car with her and smile and act like nothing ever happened 😭
2026-08-23 16:52:37
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Jaz | Steno :
29 and 4 months pregnant with my first, my family still doesn't know
2026-08-23 17:08:03
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_nikkibumbum :
apparently my aunts and cousin started a coke rumor about me YEARS ago
found out recently and everyone is dead to me 😂
2026-08-23 14:59:12
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ThymeLady :
but my sister decided she could tell all my business to the family I cut off.. so I cut her off too.
2026-08-22 22:22:39
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mid_cent70 :
And they insert a version of you that don’t exist. I was sobbing, horrified, devastated. Nope I was fine it was just a moment of weird not life changing.
2026-08-22 22:34:13
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SadittyB. :
I learned this in my 20’s. I keep matters to myself .
2026-08-23 22:21:47
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MonaSqueeza 🇵🇷 :
And this is why I don’t tell my family anything
2026-08-22 22:51:17
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jessie :
my fam genuinely has nothing else going on so they gotta gossip
2026-08-23 16:31:18
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Tinky23💕 :
Abt 2 minutes after coming out of the bathroom after my first period, every single woman in my family knew, and some men. I was mortified. Why is it anyone’s business? Why did they all feel the need to mention it to me?
2026-08-25 05:24:19
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Jaz✨Multipassionate Muse :
I’m a firm believer in not telling people things you don’t want repeated or thrown back in your face later
2026-08-23 21:51:18
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Janelle ✨ :
As the youngest sibling I learned this as a teenager 😭
2026-08-23 16:47:49
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Nopeimknitting :
I couldn’t tell my mom ANYTHING
2026-08-24 13:57:30
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✨Pretty Iconic✨ :
Sameeeeee. & some of my family says I’m “secretive”, when really I just don’t volunteer info about every detail of my life.
2026-08-22 23:46:44
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krys 🫶🏼 :
literally only tell them wild ass lies and see if it gets back to me😅
2026-08-24 21:06:11
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btheg1 :
We call it the pipeline in our family. The worst part is my mother used to hate when my grandmother and aunts did it, but she’s 10x worse than they were
2026-08-23 17:36:46
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