@lifeinfocuswithsuttida: Whether they can’t or they won’t, the outcome is the same. You cannot love somebody more or communicate more into being the reason that stretches anybody’s capacity that work is theirs. Your job is to figure out how long and how far you wanna participate when it is no longer in alignment. #relationships #friendship #HealingJourney #selfawareness #personalgrowth
I’ve come to terms with this and ended a two-month relationship. It’s not that he doesn’t love me; he simply cannot handle me—for the very same reasons that drew him to me in the first place. I had to accept that what I’m asking for isn’t too much; he just lacks the capacity to meet me.
2026-08-22 19:29:02
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iammzdeann :
Right when I need this !! Thank you 🙏🏼
2026-08-22 19:22:01
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ガーデン :
The outcome is the same 🥲
2026-09-02 23:56:38
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claudia :
The can describe your intentions for them. They know. Yep! Correct.
2026-08-23 00:53:32
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bestdamnavocados :
this. do not waste your time on ppl who don't have the capacity or put in the effort to change that to meet your needs. learned that the hard way from my ex.
2026-08-23 15:12:39
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shotsandsquatz :
Fair. But it’s a problem is upstream. Say lack of awareness. And you’ve explained this problem to them 100 times and it still happens. It’s essentially the same. It doesn’t really matter why they’re not giving you what you need.
2026-08-22 23:42:55
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Papi :
Capacity!
2026-08-23 07:49:46
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@babymask :
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
2026-08-23 07:33:38
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