@mareomni: if you’re a hedonist pls give me advice on how to enjoy my life 😂 #hedonism #ambition #bigtech #softwareengineer

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tors_bored
Tors_bored :
I feel nyc is pretty hedonist tho
2026-08-22 23:53:58
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goodtaste10000000
Good Taste Co :
Sister, I think you could try martial arts
2026-08-31 12:52:34
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coffinwithabow
𝓑𝓮𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓷𝔂 💿 :
No one on their death bed is thinking “I wish I optimized my workflow better.” They’re thinking about the spontaneous trip to Switzerland with their girl to frolic and play tennis. As someone who is like you, I understand it’s easier said than done, and it takes a lot of micro-exposure to fully engage in acts of hedonism without underlying feelings of guilt. As a physical therapist, I’ve seen soooo many people get to their 50s-60s and no longer have the health they once did in their 20s-30s to actually enjoy their investments / retirement money. Even those who took excellent care of themselves by eating right, exercising and managing stress well. They can’t tolerate sitting on a long flight to another country. They no longer have the endurance to experience the degree of tourism they saved their whole life for. Their regret is profound. This radically changed my mindset. The only difference between you and disability is time and luck. Life comes at you fast. The way your body experiences aging is unpredictable, and you can only control so much. For me personally, FIRE is the goal, but it’s balanced with splurging on experiences when it truly matters. If I’d regret not doing something on my death bed when my life flashes before my eyes, I do it. For example, my favorite band went on tour. I traveled to every show I could in various states. Then I kept myself in the house for the next two years to replenish what I spent lol. In essence: take the trip while you can.
2026-08-28 13:14:50
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imjust.ice
imjust.ice :
no bc i just moved here and i realize there are two different NYCs, at work everyone is optimizing like crazy, then i go out to bushwick and they're living life
2026-08-23 02:07:18
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r1mas
Samir :
every weekend hit the 3 rs, restaurant, rave, relax
2026-08-23 00:35:40
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leesinzoe
Baku low diff :
yo twin try bouldering it helped me
2026-08-23 14:43:56
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williamnelson6767
williamnelson6767 :
Especially with AI now, what's the point of trying to be a super producer anymore; you can't beat the AI, so you may as well try to enjoy life. It's tough however for those of us who grew up valuing mental effort, making progress and solving things. Hedonists really don't value that stuff and for me it's hard to connect.
2026-08-27 17:29:02
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user6395282723300
asdf :
What do you do for big tech? Are you a valued engineer for the long run or in development adjacent/managerial role? If so you gotta optimize so that you can live a carefree life. The engineers can make enough money to retire, but the rain isn’t always gonna come for all the others. The pursuit of “hedonism” is funded by… funds. Get real brother
2026-08-24 21:27:58
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davfedgon
💕 :
being able to just move around the world at will is pretty sweet. we have free will lady go free will around the world
2026-08-23 21:41:43
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drinkn_drake
Bill E. Goat🐐 :
Damn… so that’s what I am
2026-08-23 02:34:26
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lu.psych.ai
Lu :
Same!! At this point we are getting so boringgg
2026-08-23 11:01:21
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junghoonsonmd
junghoonsonMD :
Yes
2026-08-26 03:09:41
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ix_drew
ix_drew :
any flutter intern role around you please 😭😭😭
2026-08-22 20:02:05
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elimag222
Elisa🌸🌸 :
Habibi come to spain
2026-08-23 15:26:56
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bananabadger8
bananabadger :
I … think this might be a genz thing 🫢 millenials in their 20s were ratchet af
2026-08-23 03:32:21
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heyitskshitij
kshitij :
Based on that smiski anecdote, have you considered taking up a gambling addiction?
2026-08-23 22:02:57
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somethingsomethingss0
somethinghasit :
Bro meeeeeeeeeeeeeee, I’m hella hedonist but in big tech. We have like 60 summers left, fuck it all it’s never that srs
2026-08-23 00:55:51
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jessicamaycreatives
jessicamaycreatives :
Go do a boudoir shoot (with me 😉)
2026-08-23 23:07:04
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