@tomilola0410: some happenings should only be a script to watch in a movie than be real life experience. I work in government house .i renovated house for my parents place them on monthly allowance.my nephews, nieces, cousins all look up to me for succour and support and i do that with joy and happiness as God has blessed me.we are two men and 4 women....to reduce some burden i set up businesses for my sisters even though they're in their husbands houses..... i also helped my elder brother to get a job in civil service commission. 3 months ago it was my turn to go for annual leave....but i was given additional 2 weeks so it was 1 month 2 weeks.something came into my I don't just know how.....as i started leave my dad called me to request for money,I told him I don't have that iv been sacked from work that something happened in my office and investigation is on going.do you know that my father said what did I do that they sack me from work....how are they going to survive....how are they going to eat...which kind problem is this .... At the background I heard my mom saying make I no tell them that kind thing oo she no wan hear....she don already order for somethings and na the money where they call me she wan use pay.my dad ask me how are they going to do now that I should try even if to borrow and send to them.he ask if I don't have savings I said no he hung up the phone.I'm so shocked They now spread the news like wild fire to all my siblings....but non reached out to me until I started calling them one by one some picked and only said they heard what happened to me I should take heart while the rest never picked nor return the calls.my elder brother managed to request my account number and send me (1500)as in one thousand five hundred naira only. If I call my nephews nieces and cousins they no pick.one Sunday my elder sister husband called and spoke insultingly to me querying me why I should be so careless to be sacked from work.... however non of them care to ask me what led to my sack.....my parents that used to call me every seconds stop calling me even when I call they will ignore my calls.... For a whole 2 months no one from my family call to check up on me. When I told my wife about it she couldn't believe it....so she decided to play along.she told her parents and her siblings that I lost my job.... unbelievably my father in-law came all the way from ph to visit us with food items and beverages....my mother in-law send money to my wife for us....my sister in-law in USA send us support.... of a truth I'm so disappointed in my own family but look at my inlaws them.can you believe I was deleted from the family Whatsapp group😀😄 So after I resume work I decided to visit my parents unannounced....they resented me ignore me quite unlike my own mother that usually run to the gate anytime I visit..... I told them that I'm highly disappointed in every single member of the family that I never lost my job but I was on a long vacation but iv resumed work.....my parents were looking for where to hide their face.....I told them they should count me out as one of their children....that even at their d£ath I won't come and I won't do anything for them henceforth since they place material things over me.....I told my father in-law everything and he was so upset with my parents attitude toward me,he called them and expressed his displeasure over their attitude toward me.last 2 weeks I was readded into the family Whatsapp group I dropped a warning letter to everyone to stay far away from me although my wife doesn't consent to it....she's telling me to let go and forgive.....after dropping the letter I exited the group and deleted it....now they call my wife to tell me that a meeting has been schedule next month to resolve the issue....and everyone has started calling me but I ignore all cos I'm still in shock I'm still in doubt..... #fyp #foryoupage #viral fully back now . Thanks for checking on me🥰💝
It sounds like my someone’s story and i will say this again and again know the difference between being used and being genuinely loved.
2026-10-11 09:12:47
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KwinAfi👸🏻❤️ :
Change your number and your wives number!!! If they know where you live, move to a new house… Sometimes real family isn’t blood and God will not blame you for taking such decisions!!! Let the other kids take care of your parents!!! If you have excess, feed the homeless, orphans and aged who have no one… Their genuine “Thank You and God Bless You” protects and blesses you than a thank you from ungrateful people!!!
2026-08-30 09:08:36
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YouHuatIHuat8888 :
What is there to resolve with u next month? They cast you aside when u were most down. Stop giving them money, stop buying them gifts. Let them think for years abt what they did to a generous person who used to finance their lifestyle.
2026-08-23 00:24:02
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LilianEbele :
Is ds true or a fiction?
2026-08-31 12:07:22
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Muslim :
Forgive your Parents their love of money is not your sin Take care of them Thats your reward in the life after You will be richly rewarded by the good Lord 🥰
2026-08-24 15:06:22
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Missybiancs(BIANCA) :
Mehn this one no easy if it’s me I’d forgive but forgiveness doesn’t mean access to me or my life again
2026-09-01 05:10:58
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Rebecca Walker becca :
bless your inlaws knowing that they are their for you and their daughter
2026-08-23 08:38:53
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Stasia❤️❤️🌺🌹💋 :
if I were you I would not attend their meeting, I will forgive them and cut them off forever
2026-08-27 19:35:29
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Senga_couture :
if Steve Harvey will block his family members, who are you again?? you better block them and move on with your life and those who genuinely care about you
2026-08-25 16:58:36
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okezibaby :
U for no let them know say na lie, just quietly relocate to another area and cut ties with them
2026-09-12 09:55:17
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Aries ♈🔥🔥 :
Sometimes our own family are the very people who sold us out nd even wishes our down fall, hmmmm
2026-08-23 21:44:32
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Jullz :
if you forgive them do it because you know the poison that unforgiveness is to the wellspring of your life. but as for your parents if they could get by when they thought you were unemployed they will survive without your help. Just know where to place certain people in your life based on how they behave it wasn't a mistake they showed you who they are so believe them
2026-09-02 12:17:34
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nshimbi ninshimbi :
Jesus said your enemies are members of your own household 🙏
2026-08-24 14:33:08
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MetalGuy💥🔥🌟 :
Unfortunately a lot of people are after what you can offer them not who you are to them. And family is no different!
2026-08-25 07:26:33
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@glowillz :
oga you can forgive them ohh but guy BLOCK THEM FOR EVER
2026-08-23 17:36:01
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KANOL ATELIER RTW in Lagos :
na so so forgive dey full comment section
2026-08-24 19:06:33
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the.internet.babalawo :
When I was in trouble, my family rallied around me and supported me the way they could.
2026-08-27 09:03:39
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ezyy_nkem :
They were not genuinely happy with you. Be very cautious in relating with anyone of them henceforth because they are frienemy to you.
2026-08-26 11:03:07
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Janette Francis :
For your Peace of mind forgive them but love them from afar they're ungrateful they only see you as a bank card leave them and live your life you did your best for them so you don't have to feel guilty
2026-08-23 23:30:12
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Godfavourstore@68 :
Hmm 😒
it's well oo
2026-08-27 19:30:34
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Mbonu :
just apply court order to stay away.
this is wickedness
2026-09-01 06:24:04
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user561271635 :
THEY ONLY WANT YOU BACK TO KEEP HELPING THEM, NOT BECAUSE THEY LOVE YOU!
2026-10-09 20:57:35
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samantha :
It never was meant that family bonds are stronger. The full saying means the opposite
2026-10-10 09:09:04
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Hilda Sekhu :
mxm they want you again cause now you're working continue with your in-laws you family is after money not you forget them it's not easy bt you'll do it tough times shows us true friends and family members don't forget your brother
2026-08-23 12:50:19
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dupsy babe :
dont accept them back, may God forbid backwardness in your life, that is there real character.
2026-10-07 13:37:31
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