If you cannot share your troubles with your friends, those are just acquaintances. If you cannot listen to your friend when he/she needs support, you are a selfish friend. Point
2026-08-23 13:52:24
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Sharise Misha :
I’ve learned over the years some people like their problems
2026-08-23 22:16:09
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NataleeBailee :
There’s a difference in sharing your problems and constantly complaining and being negative about every little thing.
2026-08-24 02:49:51
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Priscilla :
So then you’re not a real friend, you only want to hear the good parts and have superficial conversations.
2026-08-23 20:21:36
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skye :
womp womp. i'll always make energy and space for my friends
2026-08-24 20:40:17
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mskris21 :
I definitely share/vent to my best friends but we also laugh A LOT more. We want to escape life’s troubles most of the time so I get what you’re saying.
2026-08-24 23:13:42
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smm :
ppl that says this is the same ppl that then repost su1cide awareness messages. remember: it is better to listen to someone that matters to you a thousand times than never hearing their voice again.
2026-08-24 17:50:05
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countrysnowwhite :
Not me. I’m here through the thickest of times.
2026-08-24 23:00:55
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DeeKind :
I can’t imagine treating people you call your friends so cold.
2026-08-24 03:15:43
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Ariadna :
that person who has had the same problem for yeaaars and is so easy to solve but they don't want to do anything to fix iiiit
2026-08-23 08:22:30
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annie :
sorry you’re getting hate but realistically there are some people who are energy vampires because they find a problem in everything. it’s like they’re never content and have to bring others down.
2026-08-24 22:28:22
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Carlina <3 :
Okay everyone is calling her a bad person but I see her point of view. Of course we are more than happy to listen and help a friend in need. But if it gets to a point where the entire hangout is them talking about their troubles and you barely get a single story in, then it becomes an issue.
2026-08-24 05:12:58
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Thedollylala :
I assume everyone is like this and that’s why I don’t go out, or share much
2026-08-24 23:03:37
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J ꕤ :
She’s not saying she never wants to be a shoulder to cry on. She’s saying it’s frustrating when someone uses her shoulder to cry on EVERY time they’re together and it’s a NEW problem every time. It is draining.
2026-08-24 03:20:36
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Airwin1973 :
And this is why I just stay home and keep to myself
2026-08-24 22:18:59
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Brendiux :
I have an acquaintance like this. It’s frustrating because her problems have solutions.
2026-08-24 04:12:43
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𝓣𝓲𝓪 ♡ :
Those type of people will never understand how draining that is .
2026-08-23 22:13:56
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phantom.venus :
Life’s too hard for friends that don’t allow venting. I don’t mind listening to friends complain as long as they listen to me too 🤷🏼♀️choose your friends accordingly I suppose
2026-08-24 17:25:27
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Myesha :
Yeah it’s exhausting. I call them energy vampires. They let off all their stress onto you. They walk away feeling great and you walk away feeling heavier.
2026-08-23 20:03:18
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Izzy :
People are missing the “new problem every week.” Some people genuinely make a problem out of nothing and are always angry or annoyed about some shit. If it’s valid fair enough, but when someone is being ott ALL THE TIME it’s exhausting.
2026-08-24 16:20:42
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elephant in the room :
Can’t relate I love my friends
2026-08-24 16:23:46
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superv :
for me it's the friend that literally ASKS for advice and then does the opposite every single time. like please, caring for you has become painful. I'm moving on.
2026-08-23 22:34:03
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soup :
so many bean soup comments in here 🙄 yall are being dense to her take on purpose. Clearly she’s talking about people who unload and offer no support in return. Those aren’t “friends supporting friends”
2026-08-23 22:39:46
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anonooicu812 :
“I want friends but I don’t want to do the stuff friendships require”
2026-08-23 19:49:34
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