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J :

I wish I could turn my heart off

Quanck :

I need someone to talk to.

sam | boy mom :

i know i have to leave but i cannot understand why i couldn't let go

sundaykindoflove :

Just because you understand it doesn't mean you're responsible for it.They have to learn their own lessons. You might needed a helping hand that doesn't mean that that person, that's going through that, is like you. manipulation gaslighting self victimizing. you gotta be careful with the covert narcissists. trust your instinct.If it feels shady, it probably is. being an empath doesn't mean being used. It means you recognize something is happening.But you still have to make the choice of whether you want to be involved or not. if you get involved and get burnt, don't go, that person was a horrible person. Take accountability and responsibility. I put myself in that situation. It's my fault. I knew better. but don't beat yourself up about it. Some people are good at hiding the truth. Do it because you want to help.But once it starts hurting, you recognize the manipulation and walk away.You don't have to feel guilty to help, and you don't have to feel guilty for walking away.

🥚 :

Wdy call if Im only anxiously attached to my partner but I feel very secure with all my other relationships with friends, family, coworkers, etc.? When I also take the full test, it still comes out secure.

Brooke 🎀🩷🦋 :

we understand everything but ourselves 😂 like it’s bizarre. but we’re healing ♥️remember to never abandon yourself. you matter too.

veloriahxx 🫶 :

Do u have any advice tho..?

John Douglas7888 :

Grace upon grace upon grace . People met me where I was at when I was at my lowest, so I just react with that same level of grace and understanding. Lack of boundaries and unrealistic expectations are what create the harm, not just offering grace and acceptance.

BrittanyD0922 :

💯 I am learning to set boundaries for myself and kids in my mid 30's. I have been an empath, anxiously attached since a child due to childhood trauma, and I'm a freaking Aquarius. Need I say more? Just because I empathize with someone doesn't mean I have to excuse their shitty behavior time and time again.

str00berri :

so true. It is hard to be really angry bec I understood them.

hater :

I know but I kept letting them slide even tho it hurts me

JANN :

I mean I am empathetic - It does not bother me I am so unbothered by pulling away or distance-I feel like the person pulling away is more empathetic than an anxious person. They pull away because they’re dealing with stuff and they don’t wanna make it your problem or your responsibility they are protecting you. The only reason why you would be hurt by that is if you are abandoning yourself.

chimmy.churry :

It’s a fucking curse.

Atticus David Lee :

😕it’s tough

Vivacious❌ woman :

Yes, the struggle is real with this, but I am learning to pull back and not accept breadcrumbing and not accept low effort from a man I’m interested in

heartfelt.scorpio333 :

definitely my curse but also who am I without it

user123456isyasmin? :

Damn

lisset941 :

Yup

Detta🦉 :

Sesame&Hobnob :

But when we lose the patience, 💀

@Marky :

i'm not bragging to be an empathetic person i'm just thankful that I became like this cuz i know it's so hard to live, but a few months ago i was told that i am selfish and i deserve no one it's hard to accept knowing all my life i was putting others first before myself.

𝕃𝕖𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕤𝕥𝕠;Elaria 🧿🌠 :