But you need to learn that constant consistency isn’t achievable. Shit happens. Every day is different. Just because they didn’t open the car door for you every time today doesn’t mean they don’t love you or love you any less. They could’ve been thinking about something that happened at work and it just slipped their mind.
Not every action, or lack of an action, means they feel differently about you. People are different every day. You have to allow room for inconsistency. Don’t use your overthinking as an excuse to overanalyze someone and then penalize them for not constantly accommodating you.
You need communication, not perfection. You also need to accept that you’ll never 100% know how someone feels or what they’re thinking, and that’s okay. It sucks, but it’s okay. Enjoy the good, talk about the bad, and live your life.
2026-08-24 22:17:32
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Unholy :
We want what we will never have because it's only us that consider this far.. thus we attract those that make it worse.
2026-08-23 06:08:57
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Liv. :
2026-08-24 04:06:28
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lighthouse91 :
THIS!!!I noticed the shift in your replies,the way you would respond and your attitude. it went from totally into me to late and dry responses,excuses to why you didnt reply. THATS how my stupid overthinking happened. THATS why i started questioning you over and over again.
and all this happend before I did what I did. The reason-because you were already showing me you were uninterested so I thought well if she doesnt care,she wouldnt care if I did this,and when i did I felt like shit it felt like i was cheating on you eventhough you were making it clear you didnt care.
2026-08-24 06:18:54
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Jacob Shelburne :
yes but sadly its an evil world we live in
2026-08-26 17:49:35
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❤️Savannah Lucas❤️ :
I feel like he gives me the reassurance I mean it isn't constant all the time but I really need the constant behavior otherwise I feel like they're basically doing the push pull method on me
2026-08-24 20:53:48
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$ :
on my brother
2026-08-24 19:53:56
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0Gbubba :
She don’t understand
2026-08-27 16:51:01
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Peyton Carlson 👑 :
Seeing that he reposted this but I’m an overthinker too… I was doing my best…
2026-08-23 17:19:19
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M A U D :
I need this on IG
2026-08-25 16:37:56
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Aether.Vox :
Ouch
2026-08-24 13:32:07
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Brodie :
Word
2026-08-28 23:12:35
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V :
Ay
2026-09-14 15:37:56
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Nunukee✨ :
2026-08-23 06:28:37
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🪽🛡️DanielMock📜⚔️ :
2026-08-23 10:06:50
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chiefsbeat_fan1015 :
exactly
2026-08-24 22:42:37
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uhm K :
2026-08-23 16:29:24
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nial4k :
2026-08-23 02:46:21
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zenoptic_ :
I wish I knew then what I know now. I used to get aggravated by her doubts and wonder why she needed so much reassurance when I felt like I was doing everything right. I didn’t understand that she wasn’t asking for anything complicated. She just wanted to feel chosen, loved, and secure with me. She opened herself up to me in ways I didn’t fully appreciate, and I took that love for granted. I never thought the things I brushed off back then would become the things I’d regret the most. I fell in love with a woman I never even slept with, and somehow, she loved me more purely than anyone ever has. Now I have to live with knowing I had something genuinely precious in front of me and didn’t realize how much it meant until I couldn’t have it anymore.
2026-08-26 05:09:54
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we ball 🤷🏼♂️ :
real shit.
2026-08-26 22:23:11
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__itsjemmm💎 :
@Ransley Carlos
2026-08-23 17:03:10
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Katilyn Buckley🤍 :
@Better-Days🥱😉
2026-08-25 03:09:58
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Josh000 :
👍
2026-08-26 01:20:34
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rissmarie2327 :
@Charles Greer269
2026-08-23 14:52:40
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Kevin :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-09-01 17:13:37
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