@mindshift360gh: IF YOUR BOYFRIEND IS LOOKING AFTER YOU FINANCIALLY BUT YOU CAN’T COMMIT TO HIM BECAUSE OF YOUR FAMILY, THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO LET HIM GO. ❤️ He is paying your rent. Helping with your bills. Supporting you when you’re struggling. Helping you build your life. Now he’s asking: “WHERE IS THIS RELATIONSHIP GOING?” But you can’t make a commitment because: “My mother won’t agree.” “My uncle doesn’t like him.” “My siblings don’t support the relationship.” “My family says I shouldn’t marry him.” Then you need to make a decision. Because you cannot expect a man to continue carrying responsibilities that your own family would otherwise have to help you with, while allowing that same family to decide that he isn’t good enough for you. If your family’s opinion matters more than building a future with him, that’s your choice. But be fair. LET THE MAN GO. Then allow the family whose decision you’re following to help you carry the responsibilities your boyfriend has been carrying. This doesn’t mean financial support buys commitment, marriage, sex or obedience. It doesn’t. But don’t knowingly keep someone in a relationship for the benefits they provide when you already know you’re unwilling to build a future with them. That’s not fair to either of you. IF YOU DON’T WANT THE MAN, DON’T KEEP THE BENEFITS OF HAVING HIM. LET HIM GO AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR DECISION. ❤️ #MindShift360 #Relationships #Commitment #RelationshipAdvice #FamilyPressure