the amount of whataboutisms here are insane. no, of course danisha isn't talking about situations that are outside of your control. she's talking about controlling what you CAN. 5% is still more that 0%. if that's your maximum capacity, then she's not talking about you 😀
2026-08-26 02:22:44
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Vi✨ GeeZeeGee_Fifty :
wherever you go, there you are
2026-08-24 02:42:21
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Morgoloid :
You can be as progressive as you want, systemic changes yada yada. But that stuff isn't changing any time soon, you need to maximize personal independence regardless of how unfair things might be.
2026-08-24 06:24:54
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Dvon Parker :
Now why is this the search though
2026-08-24 04:38:47
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Cheesewontons :
100% 4yrs of that. Do not date someone who is insecure. I had the job, the career, the side hustles, the car, the house, the friends all of it and he was so jealous of everything and everyone around me that he would weaponize his “mental health” to stop me from doing this. He literally had a panic attack when I went a modeling photoshoot. And because I’m kind and loving he knew then how to start controlling me. I’m now trying to rebuild everything he took from me all while he runs around and twists the story back onto me.
2026-08-24 05:30:44
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SmallbutThicc :
I love when you preach to me
2026-08-23 21:04:35
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That Trekkie Girl 🌌 :
My issue is consistency. 😭 Can’t seem to get a good grasp of it
2026-08-23 21:02:38
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Kikac_NS :
No they are not,how about Gaza,Kongo,Ukraine dont talk like that
2026-08-26 06:18:49
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SebbyChanArt :
I think it really depends. It's a difference between a rich country in Europe and a war torn 3rd world country. It's different between people who grew up wealthy vs people who are poor. Healthy people vs disabled people etc.
2026-08-24 14:31:11
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Ziggy :
“Don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved”
2026-08-25 14:02:05
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Ana V :
Im one of those people, but lm aware of it and l don’t make it anybody else’s problem.
2026-08-25 22:10:57
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bigb00tyjudy :
I don’t help anyone. People can meet me and exist where we are
2026-08-23 20:21:59
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_.kremena_ :
Thank you for putting this so eloquently. I’ve been looking for the right words for so long and you said EXACTLY what I’ve thought on the subject.
2026-08-24 14:03:31
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Sawyer Larson :
I feel like people are missing the point of what your saying, given what they're saying in this comment section.
2026-08-24 04:00:27
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misstiesha :
another fire take from my favorite philosopher danisha carter
2026-08-24 12:57:12
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Britt ✨ :
It’s hard to be broke, miserable, lonely, etc, and it’s hard to pull yourself out of all of that. PICK YOUR HARD.
2026-08-24 05:49:16
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Jacqueline Shanea :
“Avoid unlucky people”
2026-08-24 19:48:08
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Cee•J🛸 :
Me and my “seeing potential” issue
2026-08-24 17:54:57
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Elton John :
It’s ok to accept people’s flaws and capacity. It’s not all or nothing. It’s ok to keep encouraging and staying honest with them, while avoiding any self erasure and/or abandonment.
2026-08-24 02:06:43
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Adriana 🖤 :
Learned this lol most people are definitely where they want to be despite complaining
2026-08-24 06:56:00
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